2006-07-14 11:54:10 · 15 answers · asked by Dinesha G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To me yes you are but at the same time that depends on how you feel about it...If that is what comes to mind every time you look at him that's a problem...It really takes a lot out of a relationship that is very hard to put back..As hard as it is it can be over come but it takes a part from both...Your going to have to forgive and forget and move on or call it quits and move on...Would be best to talk it over with your husband and tell him how it makes you feel...You can work it out..
Good luck to ya hope it works...Smile be happy!!!
2006-07-14 12:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No.
You are NOT stupid. What IS stupid is that your husband did something that hurt you and himself badly.
If you are staying with him because the two of you are working to save your marriage - it is NOT stupid.
It's normal to FEEL stupid about it - it's because understandably you are hurt and enraged. Please get professional help. It's something that CAN be helped but it'll take BOTH of you to want to do so.
In the long run - way into the future - 25 or 30 years from now - after you two have built a really strong marriage - this horrible event will be nothing more than a small blip on your timeline. It'll be worth it if you let this emotional tragedy become an opportunity to honestly find ways to heal and strengthen your marriage.
Good luck and God bless.
2006-07-14 19:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now, what would you have him do, pay for a hotel room or something .. "This gets expensive !!", It's all about money look at Bill Clinton he used the White House .. Do you know how expensive hotel rooms are in DC. they are outrageous... I'm sure He was thinking of you when he decided to use your home ... Hell the President did it and nothing happened to him.. next time you look at your credit card just think how thoughtful your Husband has been ...
2006-07-14 19:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by ralphtheartist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not stupid, but maybe living in denial. If your husband isn't loving and respecting you and your marriage, then there isn't much reason to stay. You have some serious thinking to do and probably some big changes ahead.
2006-07-14 19:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by lotsayorks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i won't say stupid because i don't know all your circumstances, but if you could you should get out of this marriage there's no telling what he is going to do next, or what he's done before you found out. if you decide to stay put your foot down let him know that this will never be tolerated again, and move on, but no your not stupid, you're just in love.
2006-07-14 19:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by mznatural30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to that one.
your just asking for it all over again if you stay. If your willing to live with that, or like that, it is your life. But you deserve so much more than that.
2006-07-14 20:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not stay for no reason. Bad enough that he cheated on you but that was down right disrespectful to you.
2006-07-14 18:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by freebirdat2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no! yes because you caught him in you're home. and no because if you talked it out with him and he has improved and nothing has been going on and you know that for a fact then no you're not stupid but if he kept on doin it then yeah you stupid
2006-07-14 19:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Eisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would depend if you can learn to trust him again. And that will take quite a bit of time and patience on both of your parts. But sometimes history does have a tendency to repeat itself.
2006-07-14 19:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really but you could always get even and cheat on him, so he knows how you feel
2006-07-14 19:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Peach Bottom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋