what should I do and did i affend my friend...?

Question

i have known this girl for about 6 years and i used to hang out with her alot just recently i started to hang out with her agian and i found out she was gay, well i didnt let her know it bothered me ( when it did just b/c it made it hard for me to hang out w/ her and i didnt want her to think i was or i didnt want her to hit on me...) well we were hangin out today and i swore she said to me "well do you want to go to my house and makeout" i said no, she then asked me why i said "well #1 your 15 and im 21 and i dont think im like that" then she asked me "what, do you even know what i said" then i said what did you say she then told me what she said, she asked me did she want to go back to her house and hangout...well i was really embaressed and just droped her off and came home, I let her know i was really embarressed i told her "wow i am really fuc*ing embaressed" she just smiled and laughed.....DID i affend her or embaress her? and what should i do?

Answer 1

If she smiled and laughed it does not sound like she was embarrassed. I would just drop it.

It sounds like you still have a friend. Look at the bright side, you basically told her not to hit on you so with luck, she did get that message and you won't have to worry about it again.

BTW..having a gay gal friend is no different than having a guy friend who isn't a boyfriend or sex partner. They call it PLATONIC friends. Just because she is gay and you are a girl doesn't mean she'd hit on you.

Maybe you aren't even her type.

Answer 2

I think you embarassed your self. Tell her why you said what you did and get your worry out into the open so you guys can get past it and go back to being friends.

Answer 3

Maybe you heard it right the first time. Just don't worry about it . You all are friends and she is fine. It will be ok.

Answer 4

Weird.