But that's all I want from him, he has now told me after 2 weeks he is in love.... I told him to watch out for his emotions, because I may hurt him, by not giving him what he wants... ladies I need help
2006-07-14 11:33:00 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is coming from a guy, but youll understand, men cannot really be friends with the opposite sex. If he cannot accept what you are telling him then tell him adios amigo. It sounds like he wants a temporary replacement for his wife while hes seperated. He doesnt care if you hurt him just as long as he gets what he wants, knowing theres a chance him and his wife may get back together again, but in the meantime a little fun wont hurt. He really doesnt care about you but figures if you hear something he thinks you might want to hear, then youll give in to him, the old let her hear what she wahts to hear and Ill get what I want male answer to everything. Tell him to get back where he belongs or get a divorce and see what happens. You are too good to get caught up in a kids game like this and the saying goes"with friends like him,who needs enemies?" You definitely dont need friends like him, no matter how good your intentions are. good luck
2006-07-14 11:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love in 2 weeks - ever heard of on the rebound? He's looking for love because he lost it (supposedly) with his wife. If you are not ready to have a relationship with him, keep your distance. You have to be careful anyway, because as long as he's not divorced, there may be a possibility of his goig back - and then you'll be the one hurt if you do decide to get serious with him. There's also the possibility that he just wants somone to make him forget his wife and move on. Whatever you decide to do, be very cautious. This relationship reeks of problems.
2006-07-14 19:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Lueji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u should do is forget about the friendship unless you also have same interest with that man, you also like him not as a friend but more than that, if I were you forget about that man and you can give your attention with other man who is single and not committed.
2006-07-14 18:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Chiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be friends with someone that is in love with you? You are either going to cave in or spend your time constantly explaining to him why you cannot be with him...don't bother..not worth it unless you like being second or feeling guilty
2006-07-14 18:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by luvolskool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns... He is looking for some love... Just be a good friend...
2006-07-14 18:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call off the friendship, call off everything with this man.
2006-07-14 18:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seperated indeed; tell him to push off!
2006-07-14 18:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Naadu64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've made yer decision sis...stick to it..
2006-07-14 18:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by Nobigdeal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋