Ok, so heres the deal....went for vacation to England for two weeks, feel in love with this guy...i'm a guy BTW.
anyway im 18 going on 19 this September...I want to move out of my dad's house now but don't think he'll want me to and i know he'll have lots of questions my dad doesnt approve of me being gay...and i know he will assume the stupidest things =( So I kinda need to run a speech by you stranger people for feedback =)
please be constructive and not rude
"I think its time that I started uo my own life, get into college,
find a job..I'm going to be 19 soon and I don't want to be stuck in this posistion where im 29 and still living with my parents.
I'm letting you know that i'm going to be moving with a friend of mine that is going to school in England, i'm going to get my own job and pay for all this on my own. I don't ask of anything from you, I am not seeking your approval, nor am I asking you if I can move,i'm simply telling you that it's time for me to becom my own self
2006-07-14 10:26:03 · 4 answers · asked by confusedconfused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
SOrry for the end part, ran out of space but something like "its time for me to leave and become my own person"
2006-07-14 10:26:43 · update #1
You might be surprised, kido....Dad might help you pack! Go for it if you can handle it. I think the speech is good. If you're not working now, maybe you should at least get a job at home and stay there until you're 19. That would reassure your parents that you are responsible. Go for you dream. Good luck.
2006-07-14 10:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It might be easier to start out with telling them that you are thinking of moving out. Then it won't be a complete shock when you actually do. The fact that your gay shouldn't matter that you want to move out. Tell your dad that if he has any questions, to ask you because you don't want him assuming anything, because it may not be correct. It seems like you have everything in order and are mature enough to do it, so go for it. Don't stay and limit your possibilities because your parents might not like the idea. They will deal with it.
what does BTW stand for?
2006-07-14 10:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by jack russell girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an adult, but it sounds like you're not grown up enough to take responsibility for your life. You don't need permission or blessings. If you want to move, then move. What are they going to do about it?
2006-07-14 10:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by misslabeled 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur mom an dad that u want to move out an why don't keep ur feelings all bottled up an tell them the truth
2006-07-14 10:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋