Well i am 16 years old.... there is this girl i really really like and i have been talking to her for about 9 10 months...but the thing is that i dont know if she likes me back..and it seems she does but i dont know.....i know he easiest way to find out is to ask her..i know....but what if she doesnt...i am just going to be standing there like a fool when i ask her...its just weird..i mean i think she likes me to....but i dont know for sure...so if yall can help me out plz...like what are some signs i could look for when i talk to her..i know flirting but like what type of flirting...or the signs of flirting..anything ike that......or anything in that area......if yall need more info on this here is my aim....elmozakky.....or my yahoo im.....elmo_zakky...or jus email me on yahoo....elmo_zakky@yahoo.com.... plz anyone....
2006-07-14 09:38:48 · 13 answers · asked by Zac d 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Look for signs of interest. More or less, does she call you, or ask you do get together? Or are you always asking? Does she joke around with you a lot or give you a hard time? If you joke with her, does she hit you in a joking manor? These are all signs of her showing interest in you. If you have some or all of these, just ask. You won't be disappointed.
2006-07-14 09:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 months? I'm sure she's attracted to you. I mean, if you spend a lot of time with someone of the opposite gender, you'll start having feelings for them.
You aren't going to look like a fool if you get rejected, because, if she doesn't like you, then she doesn't like you, and nobody should laugh because of that.
And besides, worrying about this kind of thing isn't good for someone at 16 years old.
2006-07-14 17:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you notice that she touches you alot like brushes your arm or hand or lightly hits you when you say somethings, than she probably shares your interest. I would still say your best bet is to ask her out if she says no, its okay you learn with experience. would you rather take a chance and possibly get turned down or would you rather wonder for another 9 or 10 months?
2006-07-14 17:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by nynerprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your 16 it really shouldnt be a top priority and she likes you 10 months is a long time the more you just talk the more she will like you your at an age where its scary and noone wants to feel pressured into anything
2006-07-14 16:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by mommdg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you like her bad ,soumds like If she likes you that you would know ,the woman I am going to marry did not give me any signs,I mean when I asked her out she said she would think about It.she really did like me but It was untill I started to live my life and she was not the full attention or center of my life that things started to happen .It takes time and patience my friend ,not easy though
2006-07-14 16:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax,,,your'e not the first to go through this...yup rejection does sting but hey....then you will know where she stands. Hmmmm does she like you? well does she smile at you? Do you have the same "likes" like sports or books? music?
Does she like hanging out with you? and you with her?
SMILE....RELAX and all be well Good luck!!! she problby thinks the same about you! and just as nervous....PS Treat her NICE
and RESPECT and you will have no problems
2006-07-14 16:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by sundazed777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look her in the eyes explain how you feel and ask her how she feels, even if you get rejected you wont look like a fool. you will look like a man whos bold enough to ask for what he wants. some women love that.
2006-07-14 16:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by Vinny X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ...
you have to stop trying to be so analytical about this. just talk to her and let yourself flow. maybe crack a joke about it to her and see how she reacts. just be yourself man. you can't try to predict or analyze a person's every move. everyones so into psycology today that they forget how to be themselves. just tell her that you really like her. if she does or doesnt like you she will probably still be very flattered even if she's caught off guard. you never know she may be feeling the same as you. .....................:)
2006-07-14 16:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude.....whoa now.....take a deep breath.
don't ask her if she likes you. ask her out.
if she turns you down. so what.....your not a fool for trying. just move on to the next
2006-07-14 16:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get one of your friends to ask her who she likes. ou could ask her out.
2006-07-14 16:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋