my girl friend gets dry when we havin sex..?! what's wrong..?!?

Question

after around 10 mins in sexual intercourse.. she gets dry.. & entering her hurts her.. is it my fault..?!

thanks guys..
but..
what's (KY)..?!

thanks guys..
but..
what's (KY)..?!

Answer 1

no.. some people just don't have enough natural lubricants to keep the juicies going... get you some KY...

I wouldn't assume it was your fault, UNLESS you are just not satisfying her

Answer 2

There are many reasons a women may experience vaginal dryness. It is not always because she is not sexually aroused. It could be of medications she is taking (birth control, anti-depressants, ect), stress, her body just not co-operating, some diseases that interfere with the physical process of arousal or orgasm (such as diabetes and multiple sclerosis) and there are a multitude of other reasons. You should never continue with intercourse if it is painful as it can cause rips and tears inside that can lead to infections. Proper lubrication is essential. I do not recommend KY as it tends to get gooey and sticky and tends to disappear so reapplication is necessary ~ and that can tend to ruin the moment. I recommend either a water based lubricant such as Just Like Me or Wet and Wild or a Silicone Lubricant such as Pure Pleasure. These are both excellent lubricants. http://www.toyz4us.com

Answer 3

It is not necessarily your fault, so don't blame yourself. One question would be, did she use to get wet during and this just changed recently? Either way, there are different reasons she could be getting dry, one being hormones or if she is on medication it could be a side effect. Personally me, I drink a LOT of water and it seems to help me. Of course the quick fix is always a lubricant or a condom that has a lubricant on it.

Answer 4

May I suggest a little foreplay? It might "help" free things up a bit. It's quite natural for your partner to dry up, and believe me, it has nothing to do with her passion for your sex life. A little KY or vaseline will help that along and reduce some of the irritation and discomfort.

Answer 5

It could be a physical thing for either of you or it could be that she is no longer sexually arroused after you begin. Perhaps she is uncomfortable with the position you have chosen. During intercourse ask her how it feels, encourage her to be up front with you and tell you what she thinks will feel good for her.
Normally women and men get "wet" if they are sexually aroused.
Good luck.

Answer 6

No normal, you just have to make sure you keep her juices flowing. Stimulate her some. Foreplay doesn't have to be just at the beginning...Wouldn't hurt to buy some KY if you are going to be at it for a long time.

Answer 7

Could be lack of stimulation, either physical or mental. Or it could bejust how she is. I ahve some women who were very stimulated simply dry up. Would sugget using some kind of lubricant and keep the bottle handy.
May want to ask her to see her doctor in case there are other issues involved.

Answer 8

She might not be turned on enough to maintain. Women sometimes have problems with that at different ages and different times of the month. Make sure she is really into it not just you and be patient. She might also want to have a check up from a dr. it could be from somthing else.

Answer 9

Try KY or any lubricant that she feels comfortable with.

Answer 10

No, women only produce so much wetness themselves. Try using some lubricant. It can't hurt.