ok, in my fantacies, there r only girls in it, like i get so turned on by when girls do these things 2 me, but with guys its just like boring. but in real life i am attracted 2 guys cuz there is a guy that i have a crush on, but in my mind when i c girls i'll think oh, she's pretty, and stuff like that. and i am only 13. so am i bi, or is this normal?
2006-07-14 09:02:14 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa_x3 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
A bisexual person is attracted to both girls and guys in a romantic relationship way. You might be bisexual or just curious, which is natural for your age. You don't need to label yourself, but if you want to then you would be called Questioning. Try finding a local GLBTQ youth group in your area so you can talk to people your own age about this issue openly.
Link: http://www.youthresource.com/
2006-07-14 09:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone is going to tell you that you are too young.........you are but that's not going to change the fact that you have a question about your sexuality. Ill be honest and say that I have even been turned on a time or two by a women......I think that it is normal. Women are far more beautiful than men..........a naked man is just gross, they are harry and yucky.......where a women has soft curves and skin and pink tones etc.......I think that women are supposed to be more sexual stimulating to both sexes. Your only bi if you act on it more than just a curiosity. I would wait though until you are older because if someone in your class at school were to find out that you are questioning yourself in that way it could hurt your rep.......kids can be mean. Just be safe and smart if you do explore it...........you can get sexually transmitted diseases from girl on girl too.......
2006-07-14 16:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by ttazevert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are too young to even begin thinking about this stuff. Don't worry yourself about it. Really. Don't stress over it. It is very normal for heteorsexuals to have sexual thoughts and attractions towards the same sex sometimes. This happens at all ages.
2006-07-14 16:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by BeachBum 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. You're young. Explore. Experiment. If you've hooked up or fooled around with guys before and liked it then do what feels right. It's your body and you know what you want, so go get it. But don't lable yourself just do what you want to.
2006-07-18 14:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you are perfectly normal. Beauty does not descriminate, and just because you think that a girl is pretty doesnt mean that you want her in the sack. It depends on how much you want the fanasty to become a reality.
2006-07-14 16:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by Amaya T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just means you are normal....not uncommon for people now to think of the same sex, but few admit to it...If you act on it, more than once, then you are likely bi which is equally common.
2006-07-14 16:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by Who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at your age you shouldn't even be thinking of such things tell your mother how you feel. if a female turns you on that is normal to have such thoughts to act out on them means you have tendency'sand that is normal you are ok .
2006-07-14 16:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem more like you're just exploring yourself. you might be bi-curious, but not bi. at this point in your life, pretty much anything goes.
2006-07-14 17:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by gaygoddevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal.
2006-07-14 16:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find out as you get older. dont rush anything right now, girl. just be. you.
2006-07-14 17:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Gothic Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋