im so sick of just dealing with my black brothers so im ready to try something new and other races are just to scared to approach the black sister
2006-07-14 08:52:51 · 19 answers · asked by teprena j 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Black women are very strong-willed and independent. Which for most confident men is attractive. But men (black, white, Asian, Latin or other) with such confidence is rare. Men are scared to approach beautiful women of all colors, but I understand what you are saying.
All I can say is be yourself sister. I sense exhaustion and giving up in your question, so I just caution you not to do something because you are tired of something else. That's settling. Do it because you want to.
One day you'll find a man who will make you happy, and hopefully his race won't matter at all.
2006-07-14 09:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by TheAdviceGuy 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
To each his own. Everyone is different of course some white guys will be into black girls. As long as you have an awesome personality I think you can get anyone. Just approach like you would approach any other. Don't let ethnicity matter so much and just roll with it.
2016-03-27 05:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't... Guys in general have issues approaching a person they are interested in. I got an idea, why don't you try making a move?
BTW- I'm sure you didn't mean anything by your post... but I got an odd vibe from reading your question by the way it was worded. Your 'black brothers' are also mine... even if I am white, you should re-think your terminology. When we all are grey it won't matter, but until then why not just think in terms of humans instead of colours?
Then again, I'm probably overthinking it. I grew up with black and asian friends, we all faced some adversity as we all lived in a small town. If I mis-read, I'm sorry.
2006-07-14 09:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by palevox 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not all white guys are. The ones that are are just intimidated by your out going personality. Even if you your self aren't so outgoing it is the stereotype and that unfortunately is what most people go by. Just be your self and a good guy will come along, you want one that will like you for they way you are so if it is him he wont be scared to approach you. One more thing, you shouldn't cancel out all black guys because of a few or many bad one that you have came across, give each person a chance otherwise your are treating them the same way the scared white guys are treating you.
2006-07-14 09:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sure if you are pretty attractive and have a good personality, you should have no problem being approached by anyone of any race. My brother ( Mexican) loves women of all races, he loves Latin women, but he also likes Blacks and Asians. If they don't, just keep on movin, someone will come along sooner or later :-)
2006-07-14 09:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Approach them. Most white boys will think you have some huge black bf, and be scared to try.
2006-07-14 08:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by powhound 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of guys are just plain intimidated by beauty. They like to look but can't figure out or don't have the confidence to approach. Try an encouraging smile to them. Or approach them yourself.
2006-07-14 08:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
guys are scared to approach beautiful girls in general. (fear of rejection!)
but here's a better question: why do people have to turn everything into a RACE issue?!?!?!
it's damn annoying hearing: why do white people harrass black people? why do white people always ask black people dumb questions? (etc.)
why do black people have to turn everything into race?
2006-07-14 08:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by applesoda31 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I went to a small college with lots of blacks. Anytime any white guy tried to strike up a relationship with a good looking sister, he was beat down or threatened by one of the many black fellows on campus.
Maybe all the white guys are scared about getting hurt or killed.
2006-07-14 08:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by sarric 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Approach them!! That gets results.
2006-07-14 08:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋