2006-07-14 08:42:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
it's hard to be in a relationship--there's times when you hurt so bad, when you're angry and feel like running away. but then you remember all those times he's made you laugh and made you feel loved, holding you tight. and it's hard to believe you could ever find someone like him. so then you feel trapped and find yourself asking yourself, what should i do? should i leave him, even after all we've been through or should we continue battling for our love, even if it means more fighting or hurting. nobody out here knows what you're going through--only you can decide what to do--my only suggestion is to listen to your heart because, otherwise, you may regret it later on.
2006-07-14 08:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by mary. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is EVERYTHING? You can't just TRY everything, but rather, have to stick with it day after day. Many people will CHANGE for a few days, or a couple weeks, but then they quit doing the things that mean so much to their spouse, all because they have gotten in a rut, and are accustomed to things a certain way. Have you tried romancing her like you did when you were just going together? Have you tried building up her confidence by telling her DAILY just how lovely she is? Have you paid for the babysitter, so that SHE can have a day off to do anything she wants? And, the same goes for HER. She needs to do for you, too, and surprise you, too. Have you taken her in your arms and told her that maybe God is all you have, and that it is time to ask for HIS help in this marriage? We always seem to save God for the last resort, but He should be the FIRST place we go for help. Have you two seen a marriage counsellor? Do you stand by each other in decision making. Are you of the same religion, and have a relationship with the Lord? All marriages get ON THE ROCKS at some point or another, and TOO MANY people find it easier to call it quits than to try to repair the damage done. At least, you are wanting to fix the problems. I will be praying for you both. I hope you can fight to save this marriage. Just remember that you do love each other. Would you really want to go seperate ways?
2006-07-14 08:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is a same sex marriage, get divorced & marry the opposite sex before you end up going to hell. god doesn't condone this type of relationship in the 1st place.
in god's eyes, when a man & a woman are married, divorce is out of the question. there's only 2 ways out in god's eyes.
but not judging u at all, just telling you the truth about what's in the bible.
unless u repent, turn away from this lifestyle, ask god to forgive u, get your heart right b/4 god, then if u don't , you'll not be allowed to enter into the kingdom of heaven.
but, if u do with a sincere heart god will definitely forgive u.
this lifestyle is something u have picked & chose to live. god didn't make anyone like this.
it would contradict the bible. like saying he made gays, then send them to hell. no, way.
this is all the individuals choice/decision. u choose good/right, you'll reap good. bad/wrong you'll suffer consequeces.
but god says: love the sinner, hate the sin.
but jesus loves you anyways, but he'd rather u get your lifestyle right so u can have that 1 way ticket to heaven. not hell.
we pray for everyone in this world daily, god bless
2006-07-14 08:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by lu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much information to go on, but if you feel that you have done everything you can to make it work, and it still doesn't work, perhaps you should agree to disagree and go your own ways. A relationship takes daily work, but it should not be drudgery all the time. IF you are hanging on to what could have been, trust that it will not be and move on for both your sakes. Good luck.
2006-07-14 09:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Craven, do you love him? Does he make you happy? Only you can really decide to work on the relationship. Only you can decide to leave or stay.
I believe you should do what is going to make you happy. If you stay can you work it out? If you leave what do you expect to find?
Look deep down inside and do what you feel you need to. and Good Luck. Keep us advised.
2006-07-14 09:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried counseling? Sometimes a neutral person can help shed some perspective that you and your partner may not have thought of.
2006-07-14 09:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much time have you tried to work it out?? a lot of time..then I'd say get a divorce..
2006-07-14 08:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get divorced and move on. There's plenty of dick in the sea.
2006-07-14 08:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by kopguy30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring in a 3rd partner. Maybe that will help.
If I got my husband a second wife all our problems would be solved:-}
2006-07-15 19:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage counseling
2006-07-14 08:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋