If your best friend was gaining alot of weight, would you tell her or spare her feelings?
2006-07-14 08:30:07 · 11 answers · asked by Sippy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe i would her feelings, but better do it me that she's my bestfriend & i care about her then somebody else calling her names...If you really consider her your friend tell her, and she will appreciate you for that.......If you tell her, & she responds you with something like " i don't care " then just tell her, you did it for her own Good.....BuOna amicha che sei, brava :)
2006-07-14 08:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lesley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She must already know that she is gaining weight.
What woman wouldn't? A lot of weight is very subjective. The way many women perceive weight is often very exaggerated - sometimes not. The question to ask yourself is - what good would come from bringing it up? I would not bring it up because I see the risk of hurting my friends feelings as far outweighing any possible good. I'd wait for her to open the subject.
2006-07-14 15:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Wascal Wabbit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows she's gaining a lot of weight. If you're really her friend you'll bite your tongue and support her when she decides she wants to lose weight.
2006-07-14 15:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by That Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say your gaining a lil weight there unless shes a really sensitive girl but im not friends with really sensitve people get so emotional
2006-07-14 15:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by lztexan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say HEY your fat! just tell her that maybe you and her should start going on jogs or be more active with her and she will feel better about herself and when you guys go to a fast food restraunt, you should say we should eat more healthy... ya know?
hope that helps...
2006-07-14 15:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would casually mention it to her and ask her what's going on and let her know I'm here for her if she needs to talk.
2006-07-14 16:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by rosie w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE JUST SUGGEST THAT YOU BOTH START EATING HEALTHIER AND START WALKING OR SWIMMING.TELLER YOU WANT TO GET IN TO SHAPES...TRY AND FIND OUT WHY SHES GAINING....
2006-07-14 16:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say something... maybe not very direct, but enough that she knew what you were saying.
2006-07-14 15:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her eat less u r geting fat...lol
2006-07-14 16:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes to help her
2006-07-14 15:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by tory torres kaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋