it happened 2 me! and it sux cuz i dont wanna go out w/him bcuz im afraid it'll ruin our friendship. :(
2006-07-14 08:18:16 · 6 answers · asked by Candice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah-- and it's the best thing that's ever happened too me. it'll happen too you too. the person i fell in love with, -became- my best friend, so it's a little different too i guess.
my cousin has fallen for her best guy friend-- and she told him, and he doesn't like her back but they're still better than ever. just let him know-- and i'm sure things should be okay. if he's mature and a true best friend-- he'd understand and wouldn't let something like that ruin your guys' friendship you know? just take a chance. you never know until you try, so give it a shot. best of luck sweetie!!!!!
2006-07-14 08:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by jetters007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go watch that movie When Harry Met Sally again.
They were best friends and then changed to lovers and then their friendship was destroyed. But in the end they found that they were better together than anyone else.
They took things slowly and then realized that sex changes a relationship, but in the end if the friendship was strong then they will always be able to work things through. The key is communication and of course compromise for a long term relationship to exist. Having a friendship first is always a good idea before moving to boyfriend/girlfriend as it lays a basis for good communication.
Just take things slowly and see if others can fit the boyfriend role. After dating others and remaining friends with this guy you will be able to decide for yourself. Having close and loving feelings for your male friend is natural but you are right in not wanting to lose your best friend by changing it to a boyfriend situation. Let things develop and the two of you will determine if your friendship will develop beyond that.
2006-07-14 15:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kamikazeâ?ºKid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok right now im dating my bestfriend and I think it makes it better b/c if there your friend then that will make you closer and I love every min. of it! But sometimes i think if we break up Im losing more then just a love Im losing my bestfriend and thats a really touchy subject! I just want the best for it really just try to talk to him that will maybe help!!
2006-07-14 15:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kat_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it can...the trick is to try really desperately to make absolute sure they like you. then you have to ask them out but upon asking them out say, "whether you say yes or no, we will always be friends"
2006-07-14 15:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by sofiaharriett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well........ii haven't cuz,ii have best firedz but only GIRLZ!!!....
2006-07-14 15:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do......It depends how ......easily...or.....softly you handle......the ....situation.....
2006-07-14 15:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by tiger s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋