2006-07-14 07:59:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is internal mechanism to over come there weakness and internal fears . Each one of us has 3 set of personalities inside us "the parents" based on the rules and the principle our parents gave us , the child "the funny rebellious children" against those principles and "the adult" who is logical and make decision not on emotions or imposed principle . The break away is like the act of the "the rebellious child" to show the discomfort and overcome the "parental control" . if you are a parent or the child yourself you should read material about PCA . It helps understand and manage relationship with people.
2006-07-14 08:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by s_k_latif 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question of a lifetime for every child. Under mom and dad, there are rules for everything, curfews, groundings, "no" answers, etc. You hate living under such dictatorship, its unfair, and your life just plain sucks. You know what is best for you, after all you made it this far, and hey just how hard can life on your own really be! Youve got the "answers" to all lifes ups and downs and you know you can do it! Now if life would only cooperate with you and every kid before you, wearing the same shoes, life would be perfect. Unfortunately, we do not live in that world otherwise it would be run by kids. So, until that "real" world arrives, kids will just have to live with plain mean ole mom and dad in their humdrum boring worlds with stupid rules til the time comes they can finally leave home. The day after they leave, every kid wishes he could be home again under mom and dads rules when life as bad as it seemed then really were the good old days. Dont be in a hurry to grow up and leave home, its a mean and dark world out there and you will be there soon enough so enjoy living at home and with what you have. Good luck
2006-07-14 08:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are annoying, nosey, strict, and lecture too darn much. Most parents are overprotective, and want to control every part of your life. When you break away, you have a choice in how your life goes, and thats better than being controlled. No one likes to be controlled.
2006-07-14 08:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause they're growing up and are hungry to experience things on their own, like making their own decisions.
It's all a part of growing up or we would all be 45 and still living with our parents with no urge to learn responsibilities.
2006-07-14 08:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by Trixi Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they want to experience life on their own terms , with their peers and find out who they are. They need to form an identity separate from anyone else.
2006-07-14 08:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by mynickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they see the outside world at a different point of view and they want to expierence it as well but sometimes is not cut out than what it seems to be.
2006-07-14 08:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by msmelissahernandez28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes parents dont understand us and we need someone who will and if that someone is not in our house why stay there. Like my parents get on my nerve when they say u cant do this dont wear this oh dont hang around with that person so yeah sometimes parents get us anoying so yeah.
2006-07-14 08:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by Chiquis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want to experience the world on their own terms and do not completely understand what it is like on their own.
2006-07-14 08:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a normal part of development where people are looking to establish who they are, what they like, etc.
2006-07-14 08:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by April M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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It is a basic instinct to leave the nest, and fly...
to seek out the world...
and find a mate...
and BECOME a parent.
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It's called survival of the species!
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2006-07-14 08:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋