Ok, me and my boyfriend have gotten into a rut every night. After the day is done and my son is in bed we usually end up just chilling in front of the TV cause we're too tired to do anything else - then go to bed exhausted with no energy for some intamicy. Any advice?
2006-07-14 07:08:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Turn the TV off.....Find another way to "unwind" Take a long shower or bath together, go ahead and go to bed when your son does, take the time to unwind talking to each other or massaging each other, there is ALWAYS a next level to take any relationship too, you just have to give a little, initiate it. Just go to bed w/ candles lit he will know what is in store, wear some sexy lingerie, try to revamp your routine, do it for your lover and for yourself! Wind down and relax together! And not in front of the TV
2006-07-14 07:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by slf620 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have time on the weekends try to do things together then. In the evenings maybe sit outside with the neighbors chit chat let your son play a little, makes kids sleep better at night. Also during the week there is always the AM hours, prior to getting up & getting dressed for work, for intamicy.
2006-07-14 14:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by ead824 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some adult toys!! That may spice it up a bit! Loads of fun and makes it really interesting and may find a whole new intamicy level and enhance your sexuality like its being together for the first time all over again.
2006-07-14 14:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lynne D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy after your son goes to bed place a porn in and act like your gonna watch a movie you guys will be fighting for the bed but not for the sleep lol. If you don't like the porns try a showering together before bed.
2006-07-14 14:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy some cute costumes or put on your sexiest outfits, model them for your husband and have him do a photo shoot.
My husband and I have a blast taking pictures of each other in our bedroom after the kids go to bed and we get some really artistic shots sometimes.
I know often you're too exausted to do anything, but it's really worthwhile to push yourself to spend that little bit of extra time bonding with your spouse.... you NEED to get some time for each other as a couple if you want your marriage to last.
2006-07-14 14:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by mutherwulf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i got out of our rut by acting like we did in the begginning.we go on regular dates and make time for us as well as family time.get a sitter and meet him at the door wearing something very sexy and unexpected.you could both play hookie for a day just to remind each other how much fun you need to be having.this has all worked for me.good luck
2006-07-14 14:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by sassy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice bubble bath and anice dinner for two with a nice strip act at the end of the evening
2006-07-14 14:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just what you mean. We do a date night once a month. Just us no children. Also never under estimate the power of the bathroom quicky. It keps things really hot. It is not as great for the woman but it still keeps things hot. Quick oral is good too. (for man or woman.)
2006-07-14 14:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by NIKK F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of whatching tv take that time for you and your man friend. Everyone needs a little time for each other and you have to find the time to make it happen.
2006-07-14 14:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by Board 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to ask someone to either babysit for a couple days, or get away for a mini vacation.
2006-07-14 14:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋