I have this little rule were if i like a guy i will only call him 2-3 times if he doesn't answer the 1st time. And after that i won't call him again for 2 -3 days, sometimes i wait a week or alomost two weeks to call him back. Guy or girl.....does anyone else out there does that......?
2006-07-14 07:08:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i myself use to call guys but now i do not.. i do not know if it is cause i am not that interested in them or what.. but i am older now to.. but if you call a guy more than twice and he does not return your call ... forget him...have more pride in yourself.. do not chase any man they are not worth it.. if you find one you really care about then you may want to make more effort then..
2006-07-14 07:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are alot braver than I am. I think we all have little rules like that. I wont call a guy unless it is to call him back/return a phonecall or I have been dating him for a while. Even then I will only call maybe one or two times and then he must do the calling back. I think we do this because we for one do not want to look desperate and for me I am still very old fashioned. Plus calling a guy scares the living heck out of me lol. I am even worse I wont kiss a guy until the third date. I was brought up to think that you shouldnt give away the milk until he buys the cow. Texting... now that was a life saver haha i can text i have the guts to do that.
2006-07-14 07:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if he is interested in u then he would call u back...too many games being played between guys and girls...good rule u have...shows ur not desperate or needy...some guys aren't even worth the second call !!!!!! Take it from a guy that never got the first call :( ... hahaha... don't worry I don't have issues...
2006-07-14 07:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people do this. they feel that if the guy doesnt pick up the first or second time, they just didnt hear the phone. then they call again and again. after they think about it for a while they think that person doesnt like them and they fell really stupid about calling that many times.
2006-07-14 07:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more mysterious if you just wait for him to call you. Act like you have a life, and are busy doing things. If he calls and asks what you're doing, don't say, "nothing," act like you are doing something other than waiting for him to call. He'll love it if you make him think you're not sitting around waiting on him.
2006-07-14 07:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some times. But if a a guy has an answering machine, do you leave a message? I'd expect a lady to leave one on mine.
2006-07-14 07:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Used to when I wanted to play the mutual game of "playing hard to get" or "catch me when you can". But sometimes the tude that comes into play can make either one seem a little on edge with control.
2006-07-14 07:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by tasgilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sort of. I call once if I leave a voice mail and they don't call back I will never call back. but if no answer I will try a few more times.
2006-07-14 07:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everyone is quilty of doing that but its kind of normal but at the same time people will think that you are crazy if you keep calling i dont wait that long maybe a day or to
2006-07-14 07:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by msamybell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, after all, whats fair is fair. If some one can't return a call then why waste your time.
2006-07-14 07:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by kekeke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋