so I met a man from trinidad and had sex with him. I really like him, I'm 16 and he's 25. he will be leaving to go back home in November. I think I might be pregnant what should I do ?
2006-07-14 06:51:09 · 17 answers · asked by jenna 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well it turns out I am pregnant I have told him and he wants to stay with me here and our baby... we are going to tell my parents soon and get their permission to marry
2006-07-16 12:21:23 · update #1
I'm not stupid thank you very much, the condoms we got were to small for his P***S so we used the pull out method, and I guess sometimes it works and sometimes not..... besides we are gonna live happily ever after now
2006-07-17 13:39:43 · update #2
so I'm keeping my baby and getting married. SO EXCITED!!
2006-07-27 13:16:21 · update #3
your real intellegent sleeping with a man 10 years older if he was from here he would be in jail for satutory rape, You young girls love putting these older guys at risk for jail and there dumb enough to sleep with little girls, Dont freak now about possibly being pregnant you should have thought of that when you laid down with him and the consequences you can face!!! You wann play adult games then handle it like an adult!!!
2006-07-14 08:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that maybe you are a ticket to citizenship? Love between a 16 year old and a 25 year old? Technically he should be in jail for lewd conduct with a minor. But what am I saying? You don't seem very smart anyway, having unprotected sex with a man. You might just be an idiot. No, wait, you definitely are.
2006-07-17 10:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by Simplystunning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not tryin to be rude or nothin but 1st you 2 young to be sleepin with a man that can go to bars and clubs and iz old enough 2 do whatever but next time u meet sum 1 like that use protection and your young 2 have a baby 2 16yrs old mom and dad iz moving b@k to trinidad u should ask him 2 get his stuff and move with u but u still live with your mom then that cant be possible cuz your only 16 your not even an adult yet
2006-07-28 06:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by christyboo!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a pregancy test to confirm your suspicions or reassure yourself if you are not. However, you are 16 and this man is 9 years older than you and he is from a foreign country, how do you know he will accept his responsibility and take care of the child if you are pregnant? Also if you chose to have an abortion, whose paying for it? Really, not using contraceptives is a very very irresponsible thing, your future is in your hands. P.S. I am from Trinidad & Tobago
2006-07-14 06:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I mean no disrespect to you or your baby, but I think you are being used and as soon as he gets his citizenship hes gonna leave you and your baby... alone. I am sincerely hoping for your and your childs future that I am wrong but I dont think I am. I want for you to pose these questions to yourself, they are as follows;
1. "Can I depend on this man for the next 18 (at least 18) years?"
2. "Do I honestly love him or am I in love with love itself?"
3. "If he leaves me, what do I do next?"
4. "Why couldnt he find a grown woman his own age?"
5. "Granted, I'm smart, funny and attractive what does he see in me, I'm only 16?"
6. "How will this child impact my life and what do I have to offer her/him?"
Be completely honest with yourself and see what you come up with. Also, that condom bit he told you is false, Trojan makes Magnum XLs for men in his predicament. I think he was trying to get you pregnant. Do you realize the HIGH number of cases of AIDS in Africa and the lack of STD education over there? You could have heaven knows what! I'm a bit skeptical about this whole thing and really want you to think before you have this baby and get strapped down when you should be thinking of what colleges you're going to or what boy (notice boy: your own age) you're gonna be kissing next.
Good Luck, kid
2006-07-28 06:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! Guess i cant say much...im 17, and my bf is 22 and were having a baby....but that can get him arrested...first you need to tell him that you think you might be pregnant...and where is trinidad??? im thinking maybe this all happend for a GreenCard???
2006-07-14 07:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by ruspecialenuf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get all this information d-birth full name phone try to get as much info as you can. If you are going to have a baby the baby has the right to know info about the dad. make sure you talk to him too, but only if you are pregnant
2006-07-14 06:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by 4ever21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have a pregnancy test , if you are pregnant tell him, i hope he will take a resposablities of his Acts , i hope he loves you otherwise you will have a hard time if you have a baby and he will not bother about it.
2006-07-14 06:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by Dayan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a pregnancy test right away
2006-07-14 07:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by T_claire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy test, to bad but our child support laws do not apply to foriegn countries. Does he know about it?
2006-07-14 07:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋