A question about men?

Question

I am totaly in to my man hes hot and just an all around great guy, Id never cheat and I only have eyes for him. Hes in love with me but he always makes comments to me about hot women and it hurts my feelings as if im not good enough for him why do men do that?? Do they realize it hurts our feelings, I get people telling me all the time Im cute and pretty now I feel like going and sticking my finger down my throat and getting a boob job

Answer 1

baby girl, you need to tell him that. you're not comfortable with his comment. and it's pretty immature for a guy to talk about another girl's looks while you're right there in front of him. don't change yourself to please other. that's not who you are. i'm sure you're a strong girl. go and tell him.

Answer 2

You need to talk to him and ask him to keep such comments about other women to himself. Everyone looks at other people, its natural. But he should have enough respect for you and your relationship to not say those things in front of you. If he ever makes bad comments about how you look you shouldn't be with someone like that. Don't go sticking your finger down your throat just because someone else might be different looking than you. You are perfect the way you are. Just talk to him. IF that does not work try making comments about how hot a guy is who walks by you, see how he likes it.

Answer 3

Almost everyone is right. I just gave advice to a man.....to tell his wife what he would like to see in her.... because he looks at other women.

My next statement is being made simply because you said that he LOVES you and that he is an all around good guy. So I would not suspect that he is intentionally trying to hurt you. Try to respect the fact that he is communicating. He has a bad way of doing it but, I think he is trying to tell you something. Please realize that men do not communicate like us. Be honest with him and tell him how you feel about his comments. If not I'll talk to him for you.

Next, No matter how much a person LOVES you, you should never do things that will destroy you. Because when its all said and done, he may blame you for not communicating with him.

p.s. Remember to Never let an individual dictate how you should take care of yourself. You made a statement that other people tell you that you are pretty......But how do you feel about yourself? Do some soul searching and build your self worth. You will find that you are beautiful inside and out and it ultimately does not matter waht anyone else thinks.
BE CONFIDENT......
I hope the best for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

that's the thing-- they don't, because if they did, they wouldn't do it. lol. you know? let him know-- tell him how it hurts you and makes you feel like you're not good enough. that should make him stop. he doesn't realize he's hurting you that badly-- and he needs too. so just talk too him, let him know and if it persists, maybe you really need to find someone new-- because you deserve someone who only has eyes for you as well.

you never know, there's probably some other guy out there just like this man you're talking about in this question-- except the only hot girl he talks about is YOU. you'll find him, don't worry hun.

good luck and best of wishes sweetie!

Answer 5

My only advice is honesty. Tell him your concerns about his comments and how it makes you feel. Opening that line of communication is the best way to go. He may be more considerate in the future not to make those comments. At least he shouldn't if he really cares for you.

Answer 6

Sounds to me like he thinks he is the ****,,you need to knock him down a few bricks. So he realizes your just as attractive as any other woman. Not to mention ,what he is doing is one of the most ignorant things you could do to someone. If i were you and im not,,,hell im not even female,,,,but you need to go out with him dressed a bit provacativly so other guys are checking you out,,let him know......maybe that will bring him down to earth a bit.

Answer 7

Don't do it. You are fine just the way you are. If he is looking around now, it will only get worse if the relationship lasts a long time.
Tell him how this makes you feel, and if doesn't stop, pull the plug

Answer 8

i think you sould tell him how ya feel, just like everyone else on here says. some guys say things like that to see how you'll react to it. like a test. like, if youll just ignore it and let it go or get upset r say something about it. they wanna know how you take it, its's kinda part of getting to know you more and fguring out what makes you tick. if it's not that reason, then he's prolly bein a *** about it, like most guys r, i'll admit it lol. everyguy is an *** once in a while.

Answer 9

let me tell you this, he is not respecting you, i have been married 6 years to the best man in the world, he has never, and i mean ever ever ever said any thing about another woman in front of me. he doesnt want me to be like anyone else in the world. i have never even seen him glance at another woman. my man is amazing, hes handsome and he respects me, and 6 years is a long time to be married. and i will be married to him forever.

Answer 10

They do it because they expect the women they are with to be secure enough about themselves and their relationship to know that it is simply that........a comment!