hey guys. heres the deal, we went out for a yr and a half, were both 18. we were crazy about eachother, but she broke up with me 2 months ago b/c she felt she was missing out on things. i respected her and let her do her thing. we recently decided to stop talking b/c talking was too hard, we couldnt be friends yet. its been 8 days since we last spoke, and today, i really miss her. her friends told me last night at a club how stupid shes being and how they yell at her b/c i treated her good. idk, its been 2 months, and i havent spoke to her in over a week. i wonder if she thinks about me anymore, or if she loves me still or would wann aget back in the future, b/c i think i do. what do i do guys? we always fought, we had a controlling relationship, but now we see it and we wanna change it, but she doesnt wanna get back into a relationship yet. she says if she wants a bf, she wants me to be her bf. idk what to believe, help me out guys what do you think?
2006-07-14 06:43:49 · 14 answers · asked by peter pan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well its upon you
2006-07-14 06:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, I was going through the same thing with a boyfriend of mine we were together for two years, an I ended up making the same choice as her. Just as you know you love her the most, an ya think you'll always be together, It happens, she wants more, If yur positive that she's in love with u she wanted you to make that move its called marriage she wants u to propose because she loves you, but she couldn't stand on hold to wait for you to make a move because it would be to painful, and she also dosen't want to be friends because everytime she looks at you she wishes she had you back. I know she thinks about you probably all the time, But if you love her how you say you do come to her house get down on your knees an beg for her back, don't take no for answer she wants you back to this how I lost a great person once an now were engaged. Go before its to late.
2006-07-14 07:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by I like to no what guys think h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you could focus on new goals. Change your scenery a bit, and go out meet new people, make friends, enjoy yourself a little. Try new things with your friends like volley ball, tennis, etc...You'd be amazed how your perspective on things change after a while. Don't be surprised if you find the answer on your own in the course of enjoying life a little yourself. Try not to be so serious...you're still young. Have fun...live a little! Good luck!
2006-07-14 06:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Even if she responds to your missing her, it will most likely be out of pity. Do things you enjoy with your friends, date, whatever makes you happy. If the two of you do decide to get back together at some point in the future, don't stop doing the things that make you happy.
2006-07-14 06:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by threelucy2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING WITH AN EX. I GOT TIRED OF WAITING BUT IT TOOK SOME TIME AND SOME SELF REFLECTION TO NOTICE THAT I WAS ON THE BACK BURNER IF SOMETHING DIDN'T COME ALONG THAT HE LIKED. DON'T BE MISSLED BY WHAT YOU FEEL BECAUSE IF SHE FELT THE SAME WAY SHE WOULDN'T HAVE BROKEN UP WITH YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE. I ALWAYS SAY LOVE YOURSELF AND THEN LOVE SOMEONE ELSE. GOOD LUCK AND DON'T BE A JELLY BACK MAN.
2006-07-14 06:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Cuddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes being really confusing. Just give her extra space. Then wait until shes in a good mood then bring up the back together topic.
2006-07-14 06:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by babiedoll9264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's young and just wants some time to herself. The best advice I could possibly give you would be to just leave her alone for awhile. Enjoy your life, hang with friends, etc. She will come around and realize that she misses you, but if you continue to try to call her and talk to her it will make her mad.
2006-07-14 06:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't want to hear this, but let her get it out of her system and start living your own life. You'll eventually realize what's best for you after finding yourself, and she will too. Good luck man.
2006-07-14 06:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by brandedartist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a total new girlfrind. she wants freedom and u want a relationship. dont think about what she is doing of feeling think of yourself. It will drive u crazy to find out what she is doing. Dont worry get a new one.
2006-07-14 06:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by alwaysperfec237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is keeping you on the back burner just incase nothing better comes along . i bet if you went out with someone else and she knew she would change her mind.
2006-07-14 06:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your making it too easy for her. Act like you dont give a fu&* and she'll come running back. Ignore her and dont call her and she'll trip on you!
2006-07-14 06:47:20 · answer #11 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋