i love my wife but i fancy other women is this wrong?

Answer 1

if your keeping your dick in your pants while fancying these woman I don't see the problem

Answer 2

All these women do not understand men, truly anyway. Yes it is wrong to "fancy" other women, depending on your meaning.
There is nothing wrong with seeing an attractive woman and appreciating her beauty. This is something most men do. However it is wrong for you to have lustful thoughts about that woman. Those feelings should be reserved for your wife.
I am a red-blooded man, I know it is hard, but it is right.

Answer 3

Loving your wife doesn't stop you from being attracted to other people. However acting on the attraction can create quite a dilemma and put you in a pickle and at risk of losing everything you have right now particularly you wife. You decide whats more important to you - your wife or the trill of a cheap lay. So all in all see but don't touch.

Answer 4

It is normal to love one person and still enjoy looking at others. Where it gets difficult is when you spend an unusual amount of time fancying other women. Also, if you look too obviously when your wife is around, then that causes her to feel inadequate. You should stick with your wife. Also, you should tell her that she has nothing to fear because you like looking at other women. Who knows, she probably likes looking at guys too! Good Luck

Answer 5

All guys fancy other women, and most women fancy other men. Just as long as you are not having affairs and sleeping around its normal. If you cross the line, then it is wrong

Answer 6

it depends on if you have acted on your feelings and how strongly your feelings are.
in my opinion its natural to fancy other people even if your in the strongest of relationships. the "wrong" comes in if you lie to your partner or your feelings get stronger for the other person than your partner/wife.
like the saying says, " look but don't touch", but make sure this doesn't cause stresses in your relationship, and be honest with your wife, you took vows for a reason! if those reasons are fading try to spice your relationship up before venturing else were!

Answer 7

I personally don't see anything wrong with admiring the opposite sex but when you think look long you think wrong. My best advice is to break the habit of looking at other women and repectfully tell your wife what you would like to see more of. If you tell her in a way that makes her feel good about herself, you will be greatly rewarded. and you wont feel guilty.
I Hope the BEST for your marriage.

Answer 8

Not at all man, look at it this way; lets assume you love chicken and chicken is your favorite food. If you ate chicken every single God given day, you'd get tired of it right? You might even start to neglect chicken. This is where beef comes in - beef actually helps you appreciate chicken even more because beef is good but it's no match for chicken because you LOVE chicken! If beef isn't working, move on to pork or some other wild meat. Now, go out there have yourself some beef man...

Answer 9

This is not wrong i my opinion: for instance i love my boyfriend but i also fancy joaquin phoenix!!!

As long as you dont carry out acts such as sex and flirting with sexual innuendo etc....because this would be very wrong

And love is something you only feel for your wife (like you said) but fancying...this is just infatuation and lust ...nothing else....so feel free to look around but dont bother doing anything else, its not worth losing what you have already

Answer 10

No matter who you're married to, there's always going to be someone out there who's better looking. Plus there's always the "Grass is Greener" thing going. Any relationship will eventually get to be routine, so you'll look at other women as a change. As long as you don't get caught staring or cheat, I don't think it's a problem... just human nature.

Answer 11

In the real world I think both men and women still look at each other , weather married or not, this is a natural thing, but I always say look but don't touch if your married.