I am guily of making an american woman pregnant & now I have 5 months old boy, my parents do not know I am afraid if I tell them I would loose them,It was never planned infact she was diagonased never to be prego, but I did the impossible.What shall I do.We have decided that we can not make each other happy.I have taken resposibility financially , she is professional also.
2006-07-14 05:17:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
you're certainly doing the right thing by taking financial responsibility! kudos for being a good guy! as for telling your parents, I am of the opinion that you should. first, because every grandparent deserves to have the chance to meet their grandkids. second, because how are they going to feel 20 years from now when they find out that you had a child that you never told them about?
how you tell them is a difficult one... it could be tough, but you have to just get it done. even if your family takes it really hard, eventually they will forgive you. good luck!
2006-07-14 05:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy Dearest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you love your parents but just remember that they're much older than you and they won't live forever.
With this child, you started a family of your own. Even if you won't keep a relationship with the mom, your ties with the child will last forever. Money is not everything, you most think of spending time with him. This kid will be there for the rest of your life and he might end up choosing your nursing home one day. I would say that you need to tell your parents, be a man and stand up for your child. Their fuss will be over in a week or less and you'll be able to openly enjoy your child. Good luck!
2006-07-14 13:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Martha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know getting married with a American woman being from Europe or India its like a insult for them
my parents said to me all the woman of the world i have to married a big fat American, so i dint have any relation with them anymore, my woman for is the most beautiful woman in the world.
2006-07-14 12:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good thing not to marry, if you both choose. But that does not make anything right. Live up to your responsibility to the child, and to your parents as well. Dont compound your guilt by trying to bury it. Also be prepared, that one day the child may want to know his father.
2006-07-14 12:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come clean and fess up to your parents.
Whatever you decide to do, just make sure your child comes first.
Give em a happy home, keep them fed, and give all the love possible.
Best Wishes
2006-07-14 12:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by PUINSAI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your parents would be angry? They might be happy to know they have a grandson!
2006-07-14 21:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take care of your responsibility, even if you two aren't together. you can still be in the baby life.
2006-07-14 12:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by countrybydayrockerbynight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋