i have been in love with a girl from past 2 years but prior to that i use to watch her and fell for her i approched her proposed got accepted and started but now i came to know that she has an aafair with a boy for past two years right now i am frustated whether to continue or not the only thing that is stopping me is that insted of my repeated questioning she never revealed anything about it.
well, i have given words to her family that i am going to send my parents for our marriage? dont know what to do either to continue or to stop!
2006-07-14 04:56:42 · 5 answers · asked by increadeble 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
find out if she is still having an affair with this person. You need to talk this over with her. If she gives you her word that the affair is over and that you are the only man in her life, then i suggest you get on with it. If you need more time, then postpone the marriage or delay it... If you find out that she isn't true to her word, then that is her fault, not yours, and you should worry about that only when the time comes. If you love her, you should be willing to trust her to keep her truth, and her responsibility for accepting your proposal is to tell you the truth
2006-07-14 05:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mujareh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would delay the marriage.
Tell your parents and hers that
some "unforeseen circumstances"
came up and must be resolved before
any further action can be taken.
Tell your fiance that you love her
but no longer trust her
and are confused if you should marry her at all.
Ask why she did it in the first place.
If she is willing to start all over with you,
take that as a good sign.
Wait at least one year before asking her
hand in marriage again.
Study her character more, too.
She might have a winning personality,
but is she shady in other parts of her life?
Then it might simply be in her nature
to be shady in relationships, too.
Ask yourself if that's really what you want.
You deserve someone who will love you exclusively
and will be trustworthy.
Good luck!
2006-07-14 12:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by divalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her!! I know it will be hard but once she goes and breaks that barrior of trust it will never be the same and its a waist of time trying to fix it because she will go and do it again!
2006-07-14 12:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by luvme6448 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. Once a cheater always a cheater
2006-07-14 12:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry...your story is a little hard to follow. What is it that you need help with?
2006-07-14 12:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by adnerb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋