2006-07-14 04:34:46 · 31 answers · asked by hazel 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
As long as your partner doesn't have a problem with it.
Even in a stable relationship, it's not unusual for men especially to continue masturbating.... and porn is also part of that. It's just the way things are.
But, if it's a problem foryour partner, it's a problem for the relationship.
2006-07-14 05:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by blueowlboy 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yep, unless it is a guilty pleasure, as when the porn viewer is hiding something. If it is that way, then the two (or more!) partners should talk about it. That may be awkward at first, but such a discussion would help the partners to examine certain values that they may share or differ on, and then such a discussion could only be beneficial for the partners. Perhaps certain needs are not being acknowledged between the partners (which is not to say the needs will be met by the partners), and it is good to have that kind of thing out in the open, so that it does not grow into some kind of shadow or resentment.
2006-07-16 13:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by fall2005buseng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have not agreed not to do so, then do it - I watch porn and I am in a 16 year relationship. I watch porn because sexually I am open to many more things than my partner...so watching porn allows me to still feel like I am doing the things I am missing out on sexually!
2006-07-14 05:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. Unless you and your lover have discussed this and you agreed not to. If it offends him/her, you need to work that out. If he or she is into it, watch together. If porn is just for your "private time," go for it.
It MIGHT be a bad idea to watch porn with someone else, not your lover. This is a good way to start rumors, or even actually get into a situation that your lover would have reason to object
2006-07-14 04:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay, if you both watch porn together cause it can give both of you ideas for the bedroom, so I would say no to watching porn by yourself, but yes if you watch it together.
2006-07-14 06:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a matter of opinion..personally i dont have a prob with it as i watch it. My gf on the other hand doesnt exactly like it but its not that big of a deal. Its not a question of lack of 'getting sex' - i think its more of a greedy issue! I dont watch it when she is home and we will watch 2gether once in awhile..infact she gave ME the dvd! So, it truly depends!
2006-07-14 05:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by Quasi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! There is nothing wrong with watching pornography, providing it's not something you're hiding from your partner. I think it serves as a teacher, for lack of better words, to guide you into something new or to show you a different technique on how to do an act. There's nothing wrong with teaching yourself different things to spice up your bedroom life.
2006-07-14 04:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by theslam2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your partner may find it a bit insulting-maybe because they feel you're checking other people out and finding pleasure in something other than them. i'd suggest asking your partner his views on you watching porn. maybe it'll turn out that he too enjoys watching porn and you guys can watch it together :D
2006-07-14 07:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by mary. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is totally ok to watch porn!!
if you do it with your significant other or not, indulging in this for of erotica is completely ok unless specified otherwise by your partner. if they don't like it,generally it's a bad idea.
we don't want anybody's feelings hurt, this is all harmless fun.
2006-07-14 04:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by mistressmorro 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is because if ur in the mood and your partner isn't u need a way to relieve urself
2006-07-14 05:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Feel Good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋