Newly married living apart due to work. Does this have any adverse impact? As many views as possible pl?

Question

A newly married couple had to live apart due to non-availability of job for the wife. The husband couldn't move along to the place where the wife got the job due to some work commitments. Do you think this will have any adverse impact? What could be done to minimise the adverse effect on the relationship? Please spell out as many views as possible.

Answer 1

depends on the length of time you will be apart, but yes, it will have a negative impact...minimal at first but as time goes on, it will become more and more prevalent...whatever this timeline may be depends on you and your relationship, but being apart will not end well if it goes on for too long...

Answer 2

I spent a yr traveling 300 miles one way back and forth from school to the place my wife was working. We had gotten married when I was in college, but due to financial difficulties my wife had to get a job. Well, the place where she had worked before offered her a job that would pay all our bills, but it was in her hometown, 300 miles away. We decided since she would be living with her parents that we could do it. This was the end of our first yr together going into our 2nd yr. We have been married 11 yrs now, and have 4 kids. It worked out. But you have to make it work, because after I graduated from school and we began to live together again, well, I had reverted back to my bachelor ways, didnt sleep with anyone else, but some of my old bachelor habits had come back. That was a rought yr, but we made it. So good luck.

Answer 3

At some point there has to be sacrifice in a relationship, when two people get married they are two selfish individuals but marriage is supposed to make you one who is selfless, what makes you one is the sacrifices made.
It makes sense for the man to continue to build his career if the Lady wants children in the future as there will be a break in her career, no matter how short she tries to make it. If there are financial reasons why the lady has to continue working then discussing the issues, and making decisions that affect the Short, medium and long term. ABOVE all COMMUNICATE as often as you can.

Answer 4

Either absence makes the heart grow fonder or familiarity breeds contempt.

Seriously, it will be difficult to grow together if you live apart. Other things are difficult too, as you have probably noticed.

Eventually one or other of you might be tempted to enter a relationship with someone easier to get to know.

It seems a little pointless to get married then live apart; isn't being together the point of getting married?

Answer 5

It would depend on how you handle it - keep the romance up. send notes, letters and flowers. get a day off and suprise her for lunch. Do everything you can to keep that spark going and to be together again. Some distance is good for a relationship - as long as you both do not start pushig away. MOST OF ALL, BE ATTENTIVE AND LISTEN TO HER!!

Answer 6

it depends. I think the distance and separation for a long time can hurt the relationship and make communication more difficult...but it all goes hand - in - hand with the personalities of the people involved.

Answer 7

oh, i am sailing in the same boat too,, i have just been married for a year,3 months to be precise,, my husband had to move away for work,,5hr drive,, so i know what its all about,,
it has its advantages and disadvantages,,it all depends on what you have agreed on,, if its for the best,,why not,,, but dont let it go on forever,,

Answer 8

Well hopefully it will make their time together even sweeter ;-)

Answer 9

phone sex

and masturbate --- a lot