What would you do if your wife had put on some weight since you got married? From a size 10 to a size 12-14. Dont forget that she had a baby 10 months ago. My hubby says he likes me this way but I dont really think he does. Please dont be nausty. I just want honest answers.
2006-07-14 03:42:47 · 29 answers · asked by Pinkflower 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Young lady there is nothing wrong with you.
He will love you soo much more now that you are the mother of his child and as for your body i am 100% that he loves every inch!
after all he can't be that shallow or you wouldn't have had his baby.....
If that's how you feel tell him because we are men afterall and will never guess, he'll just think you have the hump because its post natal depression or PMT.... Thats what we always think until you explain and then he will re assure you that your gorgeous!
2006-07-14 03:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 13⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same position, we will never say we dont like your size , shape etc as we dont want to upset you after the pregnancy and all that goes with it. My wife is a bit bigger but we are pregnant again now 5 months gone. I know when we have finished having children she will decide if she wants to get back to her size 8-10 but its her choice. I will support her with the gym , excercise etc. 1 thing with the second pregancy she has actually lost weight due to chasing after our 20 month old baby. If you feel like losing the weight do it for yourself. we man are easily pleased by the ones we really love!
2006-07-14 04:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by Monkeyphil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife was 9 stone when we got married now she is 11 stone and size 14. The thing is that as you get older we all put some weight on and when you are content we eat more or our life styles change I mean we would go night clubbing every week and she went to the Gym and I would to. We both enjoy our children now and we don't go clubbing or the gym anymore so maybe its just our life style and age that has changed. You talk about you as a women but what do you think about your man?
2006-07-14 03:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tony Hi_teck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife was a size 10-12 for as long as we have been married. but the last 2 years she has started running and exercising. she is now a size 4. i personally liked her better as a size 10-12
2006-07-14 04:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
12-14 & 16 are great sizes for a woman. You know your husband, you must be able to tell how he feels - does he still show affection, want to hold you, want to be with you, want to make love. If he does then you should believe him. Everyone has doubts & insecurities, just don't make your doubts his. Be comfortable with yourself and I am sure he will be too. My guess is that in my eyes you would be even more appealing as you are than were, but we are all different. If you had made it to size 22 then maybe you would be right to be concerned, as it is just be happy :-)
2006-07-14 05:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Paul H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to quit being so insecure. It sounds to me that you don't like the way you look. If that is the case why don't the three of you start taking the baby out for walks in the evening? That would help you lose weight and give you some quality time. And if your husband tells you he likes you the way you are then guess what? HE LIKES YOU THE WAY YOU ARE!
2006-07-14 04:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by ladysteelersince1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not a man, but...having a baby changes your body and your husband will know that! it happens, and apart from never having children there isn't alot you can do about it! i also have a son and i put on weight and felt very un-attractive for a while afterwards, my son is 2 now and i kind of have the body i did before! i am sure your husband still finds you as attractive as before and this feeling won't last forever! sure you may have put on a little weight, but just remember you haven given him something so precious that i am sure he loves you even more for it!! i hope this helps, i wish you all the best for the future!
2006-07-14 03:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by elleb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing as you should love the person for who they are and not what they look like. You could suggest putting the baby in the pram and go out for a 4 or 5 mile brisk walk every evening, but also chatting as you go. this way you spend quality time together and get exercise at the same time
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-14 06:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by fergie4150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should talk with him about it. Might ask him y? Let him explain and tell you why he likes you this way. If it makes you feel insides, feel special when he says this.....TELL HIM. Give him responses to show that you like to be complemented. Over time, he will pick up on this and do it more often. But most of all, if you don't trust that he is telling you the truth, how can you trust him in your marriage? So, do you believe him or not?
2006-07-14 03:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by JFCHIRO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves u he should like u however much weight u put on
but in the real world it doesnt work like that
he wood probably want u a size 10 for the rest of ur life
lol
but thats unlikely to happen
2006-07-14 03:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋