I am getting divorced, is single life better?

Answer 1

If there is any way at all to save your marriage, do it. Single life is okay for a little while, but you'll find that the grass is not greener on the other side. I have found that people look down on you because you're divorced, like they say, you must be divorced for a reason or something. I don't agree with that, obviously I am newly divorced, but it's no easier, especially when kids are involved.

Answer 2

It's actually not a question of
which is better and which is worse.
Marriage can be a blessing
if you're with the right person.
Your partner can aid in your total
happiness and well-being.
You have someone to come home to at night.
You can cuddle in bed when it's cold out.
You have someone to share your life with,
whether you are happy or sad,
going through a good time
or hard time in your life, ect.
Whatever the case may be,
at least you'd have someone there to share it with.
When you fall, she can help you up.
Two minds are better than one.
I was watching a movie recently
where this young man told an older co-worker
that he and his wife were fighting.
Do you know what the older man replied?
"I wish I had someone to fight with."
Hmmm, interesting.
That's because the single life can be lonely.
Just look at Adam before he had Eve!
His lived in the most beautiful place on earth,
his best friend was God,
he was given power and authority
to do things like naming all the animals, ect.
Though Adam had many reasons to be happy,
he wasn't completely fulfilled.
Now, I'm not saying that the single life is awful.
Everybody is different.
Some need to be married
and others need to be single all their life.
Although the vast freedoms
of being single can be exciting,
if you find the right person to share your life with,
then you won't feel like you're being caged or suffocated.
Maybe this marriage wasn't right for you.
That's okay.
Take some time to heal, then move on.
You'll either be a stronger person
or a more cynical person, depending on how
you choose to deal with this divorce.
When you're ready to jump back in the dating game,
some people say it's much harder.
That's because you will have higher standards
and you'll actually know what kind of person
works for you and what doesn't.
I find that it's actually easier.
Just think:
Yes, you might not find alot of people
who will meet your "criteria,"
but just think of all the "mistake relationships"
you're avoiding that way!
When you have higher standards
and discard the ones you know right away won't work,
it frees up your attention so that,
when the right one does come along,
you'll recognize it and go for the gold!
Good luck with everything! :)

Answer 3

I am going through a divorce right now and I feel that being single is definitely better then enduring a unhappy marriage...

Answer 4

Hard to say with limited info: but I think it's better than being in a rotten marriage. Single life gets lonely. But you can fill it with new interests and new friends. You can give to others: like volunteer work and fill those voided areas. Hey...you can leave your dirty clothes around and no one bitchess! I think it makes you stronger after a divorce. Good luck.

Answer 5

It depends how you and your husband relationship,single life is better if you in a bad marriage, but if your in a good marriage with trust, ,love ,honesty, loyalty and all good stuff,then there,s nothing better than been with someone like that.If your getting devorced because your husband is cheating on you or abusive to you thats one thing ,make the marriage work if its worth it,single is not all that.

Answer 6

I wouldn't say it's better...it's harder to get back in the game. I'm actually trying to see how to get myself out there. It also depends how long you were married for. I was for two years and he was my high school sweetheart...so for me it's been a bit more harder, as for him he's already on to the next piece of ***. So try out the single life and live it up. It's time to have some fun and let yourself go.

Answer 7

Are you divorcing a woman because you are gay?
Boy I sure hope you don't have any kids.
Maybe you should take some time out and figure out what you really want in life.

Answer 8

You're dating yourself lol ...sorry about the 'D'Force *smile*

The truth is it depends on how old you are and more importantly how you feel about how old you are...when you're young being single is just a party...least it was for me...but at fifty...not such a party lol

If you're happy that's all that matters, and that's up to you!
Life is fun if you make it fun...but......except marriage...it just plain sucks...all the time...doesn't matter what you want...
I go with single life is better...lol

Answer 9

Divorce is hard, I don't recommend it. If there is away for you 2 to work it out at least try. If not good luck. Do not jump into another relationship. Give your self some alone time.

Answer 10

It is better if your married life was like hell.
You will be cured!! --I am not encouraging to get a divorce, however, there are legitimate reasons to go in that direction.