Why do almost all women get jelous of their boyfriends/fiance's/husbands looking at porn?! I see nothing wrong with porn, it's a "you can look, but you can't touch" thing... Technically their not cheating on you, and their still being faithful to you! What's the big problem? Someone plz explain! Maybe it's just me, cuz I've grown up around it! (My Step-Mom is a Porn Star)
2006-07-14 03:01:51 · 23 answers · asked by Nikkole Downing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok... my Step-Mom is Donna Doll... and no u can't meet her or get any autographs er anything...
2006-07-14 03:18:37 · update #1
I couldn't agree more with you!!! What's more is that those same women usually go LOOKING for it - and then go all beserk when they find it stashed away in the bottom of a drawer or the back of a closet. My question is: WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU DOING GOING THROUGH HIS STUFF IN THE FIRST PLACE??? Moreover, if you don't like it why are you going out of your way to LOOK for it.
Unless someone gets so wrapped up in porn that they don't want to have sex with a normal person anymore, I don't see what the big deal is either.
2006-07-14 03:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-17 06:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn done in taste is alright. Yet some people have been exploited and child porn is plain wrong. In those instances I really feel it is awful, but when done in taste its not so bad. Some guys or girls get overly obsessed with the porn and get a distorted view of what their significant other should do or look like. That can also be a problem. Yet if the couple can see the porn as a tool to enhance their relationship its alright. So like anything it can be used in taste and moderation, but also like a drug can be addicting and bad for the person using it.
2006-07-14 03:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by m0mmatcat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the key is to watching it together. The problem comes when one partner or the other shuts the other one out by watching alone. It is sort of like saying I find this more exciting than being with you. I have no objections to porn as long as it doesn't involve minors ( or animals come to think of it.) It can add spice to a marriage if not viewed to excess.
2006-07-14 03:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see anything wrong with watching porn. I think that it can be exciting to watch together. But as long as it is healthy and it is not like he has to watch it to be able to perform. You know as long as the other person is not made to feel that they are the substitute.
2006-07-14 06:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you feel the same way if your guy was being sexual with someone on-line?I mean it is a technical thing, right? You can chat, its only a computer, you can touch the person on the other end....
2006-07-14 03:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a problem with it, in fact my and my boyfriend often watch it together and have fun with them. Nothing to get jealous over, he'll most likely never meet those women any way
2006-07-14 03:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Karmie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to know what the big deal is too. It's just porn, it's not like they're looking at it live, they're watching it in the confines of their home.
2006-07-14 03:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn rocks.
Every girl I've dated has enjoyed watching it with me. And understands why I watch it when they're not around.
Porn is great.
2006-07-14 03:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just human nature. No big deal if we as americans were not so up tight about everything this wouldn't even be a topic.
P.S. can I meet your step-mom?? LOL
2006-07-14 03:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by nick h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋