without a doubt questions to confirm cheating.?

Question

ladies what are some questions your ex asked to confirm you cheated assuming you didn't tell him.if you told the truth or not what are the questions the "man "could ask to get to the bottom.Like trick questions,being that the approach that I used didn't work:I just asked her"is there something going on with you that you think that you can't/don't want to talk/tell me about?And the famous one,"Are You Cheating on me?Her reply is "no".So could somebody come up with some "without a doubt" questions.I think this is the "big one".

Answer 1

Unless the cheater feels guilty, of course they will lie. The direct question usually never works.


You basically have to note discrepancies in what they say and do, where they disappear to and when, and so forth. Where are the possible opportunities where cheating might have occurred? And then, did it actually occur, or are you reading into things?

You can also tell by how they treat you. There will invariably be distance in your relationship, lack of focus, lack of desire for you, evasiveness on many levels, and so on. The "personal" connection diminishes because they are investing themselves emotionally in someone else.

When you ask general questions ("I tried to get a hold you today but couldn't, where'd you go?"), the type of answer will tell you something. You want to ask lots of general questions about the time/location you are suspicious about, partly for the information, and partly for how the information is given to you.

Since outrageous lies are easier for you to disprove, it's easier to provide misinformation instead.

1. Look for vague responses, answers with little "verifiable" detail.

2. Look at what they didn't say. Often liars tell just enough of the truth to sound believable, while omitting the thing they don't want to admit.

3. Look for attempts to change the subject to something else.

4. Look for quick frustration and sudden attacks/defensiveness against you... to divert attention.

How they lie and respond to challenge does depend on the liar's personality, but these are some things that should raise warning flags for you.

Overall, be kind and fair, do not make accusations without any real evidence (because it's a breach of trust to accuse a spouse of infidelity, if they have been faithful, and will cause a rift); but don't be gullible either. Be wary, thoughtful, and weigh what is said carefully, in order to uncover the truth if there's somthing going on.

Answer 2

Tell her you have been offered a job with a big promotion in another state. See what her reaction to moving is. If she has someone else on the side she might be hesitant to leave. Women don't tend to cheat unless there is an emotional tie to the person.

Answer 3

Try the oldest in the book,tell her you already know so she might as well confess,tell her she was told on or you saw her somewhere.If she is lying she will become aggrivated and talk in circles,if she is telling the truth she will say i dont know what youre talking about and walk away.Good luck God bless:O)

Answer 4

sweetie...the fact that youare even thinking things like this means she may be cheating. hire a privet detective.

you need to get out of this. you will only cause yerself some pains

Answer 5

What did u do at your guyfriends house or what did u do or go today did u hang out with someone that u weren't suppossed to hang out with.

Answer 6

i think coming home unexpectedly works best.
lots of cheaters seem to get sprung that way.