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My Bestfriend Who has always been here for me. Has a gf i don't know hardly anything about her i heard that a few years ago she did something to hurt him but i have no clue that is, And no he won't tell anyone whats wrong hes like a brick wall that you can't get though to. So Now He had sex 3times with his gf and he did not have a condom on all 3 times and he camed in her,So hes worried that she may be pregant. Well I guess they talked about what they would do if she was. She said she would just take the baby and move away and never let him see her or the baby and that would just kill him. I wanna talk to him i want to try to get him to talk to me its so hard with him though any idea what i can do?

2006-07-14 02:36:38 · 6 answers · asked by tocute4kutie 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

6 answers

if he wont listen to you, then he will have to find out the hard way.

2006-07-14 02:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0 0

Help him by listening and being a rock for him. That's all a friend can do. He will look to his family for social support, to his girlfriend for more sex, and to you to listen to him talk about his feelings and questions. You're not involved in the pregnancy, thankfully. So, you will play the role of the innocent bystander who helps when called upon.

2006-07-14 02:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Laura M 1 · 0 0

oh this is a tough situation. im thinking u need to talk to the girl or her parents. get to know her. then maybe if u get to know her enough u can talk to her and tell her how much it would hurt your friend if she moved away. and also, tell your friend he needs to leave her

2006-07-14 02:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Tell him the truth! Tell him he needs to get a grip or he will lose his child. talk to him even if he is angry with you but don't mention her let him bring it up first

2006-07-14 02:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0 0

Just be there when he is ready to talk

2006-07-14 02:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by jentn2000 2 · 0 0

well just get him to open up to a diary and read it when he aint lookin

2006-07-14 02:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by broadway_boy7 1 · 0 0

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