Why dont women find me attractive?

Question

To preemt the obvious answers, I am well educated, no physical or mental impairment, tall (six foot), average build, play sport 3-4 times a week and am financially secure and solvent.

The question could also be re-phrased as " what attracts women to men"...

Answer 1

personality not money or physical features after the 1st 2 minutes matters work on geting to know somone and they likewise will want to get to know you and the bar is not the place to meet folks

Answer 2

All the descriptions you gave for yourself apply to me as well. My research says that women react subconsciously to men who show leadership capabilities, confidence and the ability to organize things and people in order to be a provider.

You can't fake these things. Confidence, for example, isn't just trying to look calm or serious or walking with purpose. Women can smell a fake from a mile away.

The answer is to work on your own development and over time it will increase. Then women will naturally gravitate toward you. But it is useless to pursue them until you work on yourself.

Because you've asked that question, proves to me that you need a lot of work in the confidence and hunting/gathering area.

It's a jungle. Pick up your spear kunta kinte.

Answer 3

Do you have an ego issue? Maybe you are trying to hard. It's a delicate balance of confidence and not being stuck on yourself. When you are talking to a girl, make sure and ask lots of questions and be truley interested in what she has to say. Don't just talk about yourself. The biggest attraction is your ability to just relax, laugh, and have fun, and most important- be able to laugh at yourself.

Just relax, you seem like a good catch. Let it happen when you least expect it. Good Luck

Answer 4

Personally, the first thing that attracts me is the confidence in a man's walk. No matter how he looks like, if his walk somehow shows that he is comfortable to being who he is, then I am hooked.

For me to be attracted enough to see a guy for a long term relationship, he must only have the 3Gs - Good Heart, Good Soul and Good Mind. When all those things are there, all the other things just fall into place. :)

Answer 5

I think it is different for every girl. You have just not met the right one yet. When you are self conscience people sense it. Tell your self you are a hottie and everyone wants you. Once you start believing it you will have better luck. I think that you have to let girls get to know who you really are, not just who you are when you are trying to get laid. I am sure my opinion is not the same as other girls. Good luck and don't give up. You sound like a catch don't get discouraged.

Answer 6

I think a good sense of humor is very appealing. Women are more likely to be atrracted to an average looking man with a great sense of humor than a gorgeous guy who has no personality.

Answer 7

In surveys, it's surprising how often "a sense of humour" is top of the list. I think women want kindness and honesty, too. Also, I believe that if you think yourself attractive, women tend to believe you - we're funny like that! Good luck!

Answer 8

It may be your attitude, but then again you seem like a nice person, and i have never met you so i cannot judge.

Buy some new clothes and maby a new haircut, try new stuff to see what works, it's not like the people who you mess up on will ever see you again so be yourself.

Answer 9

Maybe you are unapproachable. You might seem like a ladies man to women. Esp if you act like it. Maybe try a diffeferent approach to how you act in a bar/club, or even walk.

Answer 10

judging by your question its you that doesn't think you're attractive... confidence...... women can smell fear and sense desperation, don't go out desperately trying to pull, have a good time and a laugh and relax then the women around you will relax and if they fancy you they'll surely let you know.