it was a love marriage.she is leaving because i got some losses in business please help me.i love this girl very much
2006-07-14 01:49:50 · 6 answers · asked by jaspinder s 1 in Travel ➔ India ➔ Delhi and NCR
Just another case of "love" loosing in love marriage.
You got good pointers from earlier responses but I suggest you initiate with Terminator2006 suggestions "give a last try. Sit down with her.....(except for: "and even die for her") as you know what you can do for her, no need to over exhibit at least at this point of time. And then let it happen what is destined. When things are going beyond your possible sincere efforts, try them by leaving them.
Life will take its own course, learn from your mistakes and it will be all for good.......for both of you>
2006-07-14 20:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by helpaneed 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Human Relationships are very difficult to build and easy to destroy. If you love her so much, give a last try. Sit down with her and ask her whats really making her to quit. Dont have ego, dont feel shame, tell her about your love. how much you love her and how much you can do for her. Tell her you always support her about the decision she makes. But tell her you are the only person who really cares for her and even die for her (if you really feel soooo). Understand her problem. Atleast you dont do the mistakes in future. Try to convince her. If she is not willing, please for heaven save leave her and you will get a good girl soon. Dont get shock or angry after hearing the answer. Take it easy. Because any way you are the winner. If she wants to leave, you are still lucky. You have choices in life and there are girls who are good.
Next time love a girl who loves you..... really.......
All the best in your life.....
2006-07-14 09:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by Terminator2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds downright shallow if she is only leaving you for some losses in business...actually sounds more like golddigger to me. Ask her again if that's the real reason...sometimes people don't like to tell the real reason because we don't want to hurt anyone more than we need....Either way there is not much you can do if she wants to leave. It'll hurt but within time you'll be okay:).
2006-07-14 08:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by modernlifeisrubbish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jaspinder
Sorry to hear about your heart breaking love story.
If she wants to leave you for whatever reasons, within 4 months of your love marriage, I do not think she is worth hanging onto. Save your love for someone who deserves it and just let her go. I know it will be pain but you just think - you will face even more heart breaking moments and humiliation if you continue to live with such a partner.
2006-07-14 09:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's leaving you b/c of some business losses (which I assume also means a loss of money), it wasn't a marriage based on love.
2006-07-14 08:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Di 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's that shallow, imagine how she will be in 5 years. Let her leave now, rather than later when there is much more invested into the relationship. You will bounce back from this
2006-07-14 09:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by Stacia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋