What do you want your woman to do to make you feel better when you are down or in a bad mood?

Question

This can go for woman too, ladies , what do you do for your man to make him feel better when he is down or in a bad mood?

Answer 1

If it just has been a hard day, either physically or mentally, a back-rub is nice. That will relieve the physical tension and muscle pain.

If I am angry or upset, usually the best thing she can do is leave me alone. If there is something that is bothering me, I do not want to "share my feelings". I want to work it out by myself.

If she pushes me to "talk about it" all it will do is cause me to get more frustrated!

Each person is different! There is no right or wrong answer to this question.

Answer 2

First of all I don't pout, so I don't need her to save me. I just wish she could tell me she loves me a little more often on her own, without the "you too" echo from me saying it first. I want her stop playing the head games and getting mad at me so I will turn around (from my bad mood) and pamper her again. The rare times I get down, doesn't need to be attacked with, "well, aren't we cranky" comments, or worse "you don't even care anymore", or worse yet "whats wrong" (spoken not from caring but inpatients that I'm not emotionally available to carry her for any given moment). Tell me you love me and mean it, ask "is there something I can do to help" and mean it, show me you understand and care that life is challenging to me sometimes too. Pump up my bruised ego and mean it. I can move mountains when supported, I can't do anything when being chiseled at.

Answer 3

Show some compassion. Make me feel like I'm still number 1. I hate it when a woman steps on you when you're down as says negative things to you. She should be the one to help you get on your feet again and say "Everythings going to be ok baby. Where in this thing together." instead of "I told you so" or my favoite " What did you do?" A man needs to know that he can fail and still succeed. Then give him plenty of sexxxxxx. That keeps him going... lol

Answer 4

Let him know you care for him. Stay close to him just the two of you, talk to him in a romantic way, don't push him to talk about whats bothering him, keep his mind away from his problem, treat him with one of his favourite drinks and let him drink in your presence while you chat. Take him for a short walk. After sometime he shd calm down and will talk about what is bothering him and you can always give him the confort and assurance he needs to get over it. Tell him you love him and you are there to share his problems.

Answer 5

All I ever needed my exwife to do when I was in a bad mood was to hold me. Hug me and tell me that she loved me. When I was in her arms, all of the problems, pains and troubles of the world disappeared. Her love for me took away all worries. Unfortunately her love stopped after 12yrs and I am alone and she is giving that love to someone else and it is tearing me apart.

Answer 6

I don't want her to pry, if I feel like telling her whats wrong I will; but just to there to hold, to love, just gove me comfort by knowing that she loves me.

Answer 7

I give my man a bj - it's a great stress reliever (for both of us). Oh, don't forget to swallow all of that yummie goodness :-)

Answer 8

cuddle talk to me in a positive way change the subject to something i enjoy doing

Answer 9

Give me words of afformation, make me laugh, talk , spend time with me, go together for a walk, give me massage, be my friend:)

Answer 10

I bring him up by telling him no matter what I will always love him