2006-07-14 01:03:47 · 24 answers · asked by James A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't stop trying -you compromise.
2006-07-14 01:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by SAHM/Part Time Tutor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With this person that you have tried to stay together for so long, ask your self this. Can I sit at the same table and look across it and write down all the good things that we as a team have done good and bad. What you need to do to make changes to make it work and what they have do to make it work. You have to write it all down and be serious with each other then compare and make a true to life decision. God Bless
2006-07-14 01:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by lonehermit2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never stop tryin if you really love each other. but if it is meant to be you will work it out.
2006-07-14 01:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by bunnybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in that position myself & its so hard especially wen u love them, but if it is really dragging u down & u are just not getting on with each other then it probably is time to call it a day coz no relationship should be hard work ALL the time
2006-07-14 01:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by devine_gem22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When one asks a question like this, it's time to stop. Obviously, you're at a crossroads and the best thing to do is let go and move on. If it's meant to be, it would be already.
2006-07-14 01:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am experiencing the exact same situation as we speak in my life.Ive been trying to hold on for 2 yrs. as he also is, but we r both getting more and more lonely in our "own " worlds, the closeness we once shared, intimacy, its not there anymore and feeling lonely is an all tell tale sign that its time to move on.
2006-07-14 01:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by sassygalsurvivin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stop trying when you stop loving, otherwise you try and try and try. Love is worth fighting for. If you find that you are miserable, and there is more bad than good, and more irritation than love...Then you have to search yourself to find out if you really love that person.
2006-07-14 01:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stop trying after you've gone through therapy or some sort of counselling. If that does not work than don't waste your time.
2006-07-14 01:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be stop trying so hard. Stop talking and start living. Get out more and share.
2006-07-14 01:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by thecharleslloyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they both love each they will never stop trying
2006-07-14 01:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Blade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the factors? Cheating, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Domestic Violence? Maybe you just need to sit down and talk "WITH" each other and try to accept each other for who you are.
2006-07-14 01:07:33 · answer #11 · answered by john's brat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋