I have to be honest - I am thinking about threesomes more and more as I get older. I've been happily married for 6 years now and my wife and I have known eachother for over 10 years. We are very much in love and have a great sexlife. But I'd just love to watch my wife kiss another girl.
But does it ever REALLY happen? I'm not asking for banal advise like "don't do it".....blah blah....but I want to hear from people IN THE UK who have actually done it.
With respect, not the older people who no doubt have done - nor from youngsters in their teens who are lucky enough to have had a bit of slap and tickle - but from people in their early 30s or late 20's - people who are happily married and did it as a bit of fun.
How did you arrange it - what was it like and how did it affect your sex life afterwards.
2006-07-14 00:38:18 · 20 answers · asked by AdviseLine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am 32, I have done it, and it was amazing! It really spices things up, there was no after effect, just remember it's only sex, not a relationship. There wasn't really an arrangement, I was at a club with some friends, an attractive girl hit on me, I brought her home. I really liked being with a woman, and I liked my husband being able to see us kiss, touch, etc. I would say, go for it!
2006-07-14 03:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by tear streaked angel 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I have taken part in threesomes twice.
The frst time I was the addition to my friends' maritla bed. We had a lovely time and I spent the next day with them (we felt this was very important so as not to feel just like a sex toy brough in for their gratification). I later moved in with them (in a non sexal capacity) and it was never awkward. But I liked and respected them both.
The second time I asked a friend who I knew fancied me to join me and my long term partner (we are in our 30s). This was less successful as I fel the woman I asked did it to be with me rather than as just a fun thing between the three of us. However it didn't affect my relationship with my partner. In fact, I think he has been able to see that the idea of them is more exciting than the doing it. He has never been bothered about repeating the experience (it was about 3 years ago).
That's it really, great fantasy, not so exciting in real life.
2006-07-14 00:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're in Canada, but we are in our early 30's and have done something similar. Try searching a site like adultfriendfinder for other like-minded people in your area. I KNOW you'll get a ton of hits. Another good place to look for "real world" information is the message board I've linked to below.
2006-07-14 00:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they do really happen !!
i was seeing a guy who said this would be his ultimate fantasy and so arranged for a girl to come and join us , it was fun but not as exciting as we thought it would be ! ! the fantasy is far more exciting than the reality !
i wouldn't say it has really affected my sex life its just another thing to cross of the list before ya die !
Id be care full and make sure you discuss this properly with your wife so it doesn't cause problems between you afterwards x good luck !
2006-07-14 00:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by crazy_chick_h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really does happen.we too had threesome many times , but in a different way.My wife had a B F .Out of curiosity- For a change she suggested 3 some we deed it but not in the same room . First he deed it with my wife in one bed room and i waited out hearing her moans and cries.After wash up she came to me and we did it . The same had been repeated3-4 times , some times, me first . It has not affacted our married life even though we tease each other many times happily.
2006-07-14 03:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not looking for customers, but if you check out my 360 and contact me I can tell you all the bad and the good. I have written 3 books about it and i am running a hedo resort right now. I'll probably put you off, I would hate to be the one to introduce anyone to the scene.
2006-07-14 00:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I've had spontaneous three somes with friends, paid for threesomes and my girlfriend took me to a Dutch brothel and paid for a threesome for my birthday - it was great, we're still together and still happy and we both enjoyed it. And we've had other threesomes (without financial exchanges) since. Go for it.
2006-07-14 02:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by nkellingley@btinternet.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it really happens. sex was fine after. i just ask the girl if she wanted to play with me and my husband,it was that simple.have you brought this up to your wife yet? oh and im 38 and far from being old! i am american but my husband is from the uk.good luck to you and i hope she goes along, she'll have fun!
2006-07-14 00:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by mojomuppet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife and i had a girlfriend. and it was cool for about 4to6 months.we party alot then. and i know my wife likes girls. but she won"t adamant it anyways, i started doing her on the side.
and of course we got caught. but we got over all that.it was rad!!!!!i bought doubly headed dido. anyways, it was cool!!!!!!!!
i think if u do it u should hire a professional!so u both can have your way with her and leave. no Jerseys no doing it on the side no striges atach.
2006-07-14 01:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by popthehop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife expressed a desire to experiment with biseuxality and I said go ahead. Eventually it led to a threesome for us and her girlfriend. We all enjoyed ourselves. Yes they happen and my wife is bisexual to this day with my approval.
2006-07-14 01:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋