i am 20 yrs. older.
2006-07-13 23:47:08 · 23 answers · asked by cindy s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think all that maters is you are totally in love. Go for it girl!!!
2006-07-13 23:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Zoe F 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course people will tell you age shouldn't matter but quite frankly it does. I only know that you are 20 years older so lets step decades into the future. You are now 80 and your other half is only 60. The health issues you face at 80 put a big burden on your partner at 60. See my point? If i had the chance to date a woman 20 years my junior I'd jump at the chance, but marriage? No.
2006-07-14 01:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter as long as you understand and accept the future implications. for example a 20 year old girl wanting to marry 50 year old man.
Marriage is a life commitment and not a few years commitment
I personally don't encourage it as I have seen many disappointments when a partner is still young and wanting to have sex and lots of fun where the other partner is started to be limited physically by age.
Good luck if you have to make this decision
2006-07-14 00:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by hotdesersand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch 22 type question, if your 20 and you wanna marry a 50 year old (what are your real intentions) I hope the person in mind is legal to buy liquor!
2006-07-13 23:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by im_tired_of_dis_bullshyt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 20 years old, you should marry a person between 20 and 30 years old, otherwise its waste, if you want more help mail me on mkkittu@yahoo.com and come for yahoo chating
2006-07-14 00:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by Krrishh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously you both have to be of legal age in the state in which you want to marry, but other than than, if you are deeply in love with each other, age should not be a factor to be considered.
Just be sure that you are both mature enough to understand the ramifications, and responsibilities of marriage maturely before going through the act.
2006-07-13 23:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does...
u may not change- the other person may grow into a different person...
still if u stay in constant touch, understand the ambitions and views, even leave issues as a discussion not fester into arguments, you can make it work...
remember communication is everything- age will be no spectre in that
2006-07-13 23:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-07-13 23:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by dxle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a look at a 40 year old woman and then take a look at a 60 yr old man.then decide on that.that decision is ultimately yours
2006-07-13 23:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by rich-k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are not wonting to marry a teenager, 19 and older is no problem
2006-07-13 23:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by JESUS loves 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes...I dont know...if the kid is well settled financially it could be a great thing for both of you.
But if its a situation where your the one who is making the money...are you sure you want to be supporting him when your on Social Security?
2006-07-13 23:50:48 · answer #11 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋