Hi to all!!! I noticed everytime my boyfriend plays with my clit after awile it hurts when he touches it again.does anyone know why >?
he is not rough on me and what i feel is a sharp pinching feeling on my clit,the pleasure does not last that long, could it be because i reached an orgasm and my clit gets dry>?
i have not got a clue andwould like to feel comfortable when he plays around with me..any 'LOGICAL' explanations and any girls gone through the same or similar feeling..your thoughts............
2006-07-13 23:45:35 · 8 answers · asked by Nasty Gurl From Around The World 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Allow me to reassure you, you are perfectly normal. Think of your clitoris as being exactly the same as a man's penis. It's formed of the same type of tissue which is called erectile tissue.
When you become aroused by stimulation your clitoris becomes hard and swollen because it is filled with blood. The tiny blood vessles in the clitoris dilate and allow an increased blood supply. This makes your clit very sensitive to touch and pleasurable sensations are sent to the culster of nerves near your tail bone. This then sends signals to your brain.
Your brain switches off in several areas as you become more and more aroused. These include the area that senses pain and the area that makes you feel fear when necessary. So you are not afraid and feel pain far less readily.
After some prolonged stimulation you have an orgasm. Almost immediately after orgasm, your brain realises that you are no longer aroused. It switches your pain and fear centres back on. However, your body has not caught up. Your clitoris is still hard, swollen with blood and very sensitive. Now when you are stimulated, your brain registers the sensation as pain. The blood feeds oxygen to the nerves so they are very sensisitive. You are being touched in a vulnerable area and your body wants to encourage you to protect yourself so you feel pain. It's a bit like being prodded in a bruise.
Men's penises are exactly the same. If you keep stimulating him after orgasm and ejaculation, it's unlikely that he will be very happy.
2006-07-13 23:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 and married and I do the same thing. So for all those people saying use lubricant.....it doesn't help for the pain we are talking about. You are just going to have to ask him to stay away from your clit for a few minutes after you climax. I tried every kind of lube there is and nothing worked so save your money and just please him any way you can while you are waiting on that sensitivity to go away. Good Luck.
2006-07-14 02:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by murph_ltt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try more lubrication, I have same problem and if it is dry it hurts like hell even on the clit! it is natural that some women do not have allot of lube ,not because they anit turned on it just happens, but try a silicone based , water is OK but wares out too fast and sticky . hope this helps.
2006-07-13 23:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by its_ok_im_here69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your boyfriend go right for the very sensitive bit in the middle? I find that stimulation on that bit gets 'too much' after a while. If you imagine your clitoris as a clock face then most women find the most sensual 'time' is about ten to two rather than the middle of the clock face.
2006-07-14 03:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your clitoris gets oversensitized after orgasm and should be left alone for a while....Nature's way of saying you've had enough for now...
2006-07-13 23:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should try returning the favour to him......do it too much an its gonna hurt...unless you use a good lubricant...... spit just dont do it.......there again perhaps your past it....you know drying up........ never mind deary......the menopause comes all. thankfully .
2006-07-13 23:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by paul_9_25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using some lubrication, for Christ sakes... Ever heard of K-Y Jelly??? Use it!
And when you're done, tell him to stop!!
2006-07-13 23:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by crazyotto65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lubrication
2006-07-14 02:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by panther 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋