I'm 28 yr old. from last 5-6 yrs (since then i came into profession world), I have been feeling insecure and scare about everything, like...loosing job, mishap with family people, accident, and all). I dont experince peace. I got married in 2005. Please help me.
2006-07-13 23:16:25 · 13 answers · asked by Mukesh S 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Feel peace with people you comfortable with. You said you married, why don't you spent one day with your wife or your kid (must be they're babies right?). Feel peace with relaxing. Don't think about loosing job, accident, and bla bla bla. don't even think about your job!
Think positive
If you're loosing job, maybe He wants you to get another job that's is way more fantastic than you have.
Mishap with family..,, trust me, lots of people will get much closer after that
Accident..,, then you'll go to heaven! that's fun, really.
So...
think positive
relax
oh yeah..,, and 1 thing. Believe that Jesus will helps you. Remember the footprint story. Maybe you want me to send it to you???? It's really touchful and helpful. Answer me okay!
2006-07-13 23:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the real world. As a kid you thought school was much harder than just having to go to work like Mom and Dad did.
Well now it's time for you to really grow up, not physically, not emotionally, not psychologically.
It's a different type of growing up that has no name yet. sort of personal fortitude. You have to learn how to be brave in the face of anything. And always remember, no matter how bad things get you can always manage some how.
You may not have a BMW, and a fancy home, but put a roof over your head and food on the table and you have made it.
2006-07-13 23:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the serenity prayer helps a lot, too. If you're not into religion, that's fine. You can still use it though. If you can change something in your life, change it. If you can't, accept that you can't. And you'll need to wisdom to know the difference. It gives me peace of mind to know that I've done all I can do about something and if I can't do anything, then I can't.
2006-07-13 23:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- Appreciate that life is not perfect. Things happen, so learn to adapt to uncontrolled events.
2- Set yourself personal goals (professional, family, spiritual, etc..) and plan to meet them.
3- Love everyone around and forgive mistakes.
4- Smile, smile, and smile to yourself and people around you.
5- Be positive and turn unexpected events into learning opportunities.
2006-07-13 23:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by hotdesersand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worrying is one of the most useless feelings. Tell yourself (and try hard to believe it) that you cannot always control what happens to you, but that you will be okay no matter what happens. I usually say "oh bother" when things happen that I have no control over and then I move on. Good luck *smiles*
2006-07-13 23:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by dxle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay positive I know at times its hard and you start contemplating on things. god has given us another chance to live (another day)where you can use it as a mission of " if I was put on this earth today and these are my current life senario" then, what can i do to change where I want to go with my life .. so sleep on it (easy said than done. i know bro) , use your thougths for good positve thinking and positive events will unfold. in the end you are in charge of your life. so do it for yourself and dont try to please anybody else until you are please within yourself. your time for happiness will come. it just that its got to start within yourself but remember we are all in the some boat. I learn from my parents that this can be achieved when they left their homeland at mid-age and had to start life here from scratch and they never gave up.. bro!
2006-07-14 00:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and ask God to fill you with the love of God.Praise God for all the good things He has done for you.I guarantee that you will be filled with joy and peace.
2006-07-13 23:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think just about every one thinks those sort of thing nowadays
just relax get some medication to help and try and enjoy wot ya got.
anything can happen and thats a good reason to enjoy now.
remember while you worry you miss out
2006-07-13 23:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should meditate, take some vacation, n pray a lot... just do some breathing exercises as well n try to think positive... all the best
2006-07-13 23:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur the only 1 who could answer your Question!
Sorry! Could'nt be of help.
2006-07-13 23:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by madstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋