I'M 30, n got married abt a year back, it seems always i am asking sex to my hubby n not him. why is this so, smtimes i feel guilty or rather feel like i am forcing him for sex. is this alright, why cant he approach me first...when i talk to him abt this, he says smtimes he is tired from work...n no other good ans tt statisfy me...i am on the obsese side 85 kg. can anybody ans me...weather i am asking for too much and is it alright for me to ask him always.
2006-07-13 20:54:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
once he told me....i am behaving like a sex manic...!!! anyway he is 35
2006-07-13 20:55:54 · update #1
sorry he is 32 years old.
2006-07-13 20:57:37 · update #2
i gave him time to relax n always ask him when we r in the bed!!
2006-07-13 21:00:50 · update #3
Well, first of all, if you need sex who are you suppose to ask, your neighbor? Let your hubby rest, give him some food, ask about his day and just talk. Sometimes he may just want someone to talk to and unwind. If he is really tired, run a bath for him or better still bath him. Then you can give him a relaxing massage with some aromatic oil, like lavender or sandalwood. Then you see how he responds to you ........If you got married just a year ago, then i am sure the weight does not bother him.
On weekends, when you are both in a relaxed mood, ask him gently what he prefers in bed. Always try new things. Of course, having sex everyday of the week is exhausting
2006-07-13 22:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by mamasita79 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex therapy.. if he is willing to go.. sounds to me like there are other needs that are not being met. Also, he may be having performance ansiety (sic). Every time you have sex, do you expect him to go off? I'm 27 and my wife could be classifed as a sex maniac.. but you know what the hardest part was... getting her to realize that just because I want to enjoy our closeness, doesn't mean I want to orgasm.
It's not an age thing.. It's most likely a stress thing. And you bugging him is stressing him out. I know you have needs, and yes, he should meet them, so work through the other problems, and see if your sex life doesn't improve. Good luck!
2006-07-14 04:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Grant S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That normal 4 the 30 or 30 plus women to ask more sex.Only your husband can't fulfil your request.B'cos 30 so honey time.2 to 3 time perday so normal.lf u need my help u can reply to me n write down your email address.l'm always ready to help u.See u
2006-07-17 05:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my point of view, your hubby may be really be tired or feel stressful about work. Everybody have different sexual desires, so you can't really blame yourself or him. Maybe ask your husband to have a short break from work and relax. maybe it have a better effect.
2006-07-14 07:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no clear answer to this question. It could be you or him. He might be just a guy that is not sexually driven and you are. Either way keep on doing what you are doing and feel good about it as long as he loves you
2006-07-14 04:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by hotdesersand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is tired or not attracted to you if you gained weight also give hime time to relax and eat before you through your legs up in the air!
2006-07-14 03:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by anastacia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the opposite problem - my husband is the one who always does the asking.
2006-07-14 07:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋