It really is more of a chore now and I really could go with out it at all. However I feel very guilty and know I am neglecting my very patient husband. I was told it takes about a year for your hormones to get semi-balanced out, but I just dont see any change.
2006-07-13 20:31:53 · 4 answers · asked by Adanyell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh, I can so relate. I have a 20 month old and a 9month old. I am just so tired and I don't feel sexy anymore. I think that because we are so involved with our children that we don't make time for our relationships anymore. We used to have a great sex life and now it has just fizzled. It does make me feel sad. I am sorry I didn;t answer your question very well, but thanks for asking it. I am relieved to know that I am not the only one who feels that way.
2006-07-13 20:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by suzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a close male friend who has told me the same thing. Their baby will be 2 yrs old in the fall and he says his wife has lost all interest in sex. I also had a baby 5 months ago and still have not the desire! Right now i feel as if I could go the rest of my life w/o sex, but I'm hoping to someday have the desire again!
Right now I am just too tired to make it a priority.
Maybe you're physician could recommend something by way of vitamins or something.
Best wishes!
2006-07-13 20:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably has very little to do with your hormones. Often times, it has a lot more to do with stress. One thing I know for a fact, having the baby in the same room with the parents as an infant is a sex-killer for sure.
2006-07-13 20:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by bombhaus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happened to me x3 over last 30 years...guess i'm just bad luck for women....just about ready to give up, to have a good sexual relation is just about all i ever wanted in life, and its the one thing i cant seem to have...
2006-07-13 21:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by fistfull5000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋