2006-07-13 20:30:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
That really varies on how/why the family is strict and the nature of the child.
Some grow up to follow in their family's footsteps/teachings - i.e. being strict with their own children, being very moral and likely to follow the rules, having high work ethic.
It's generally believed that a child that doesn't get to test boundaries though or learn things for him/herself will rebel or go out of control as soon as able. (i.e. when kids in strict households go to college and have never had the chance to date, have privacy, make mistakes they often drink, have sex, and experiment more than the average student).
then some people... understand where they come from, make the appropriate changes to make themselves happy, and lead perfectly balanced lived.
I'd say most often - if a family is very strict, the child will rebel or at the very least experiment in the things he/she thinks he/she's missing out on. often, children can become burnt out and slack in the studies they were so pressured to do. hopefully, it doesn't ruin the relationship of the family and/or create secrecy and distance.
2006-07-13 20:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by askanswerdiscover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up with a very strict, authoritarian, and disciplinarian mother and a physically abusive brother. I became an introvert person, afraid of people, afraid of making mistakes, paranoid, and i also became like my mom and my brother. I realized that what they did to me when i was younger is the same thing as i am doing to my brother's kids when he had kids. i did not have friends and people tend to not talk to me or find me alarming. However, i am not that person anymore. I've made a conscious effort to change. I love my mom and bro now. They're good to me now.
2006-07-14 03:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful...there is a fine line when raising kids. If a person is too strict..the child may not have a mind of its own. If Not strict enough..irresponsibility kicks in . I'm finally having a mind of my own !
2006-07-14 03:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the effects of growing up in a strict household might be that your person becomes very disciplined, structured in routine, timely, organized. or you become defiant, resentful, lacking in experience, pushing the boundaries
2006-07-14 03:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The environment that a person grows up in is not always an indicator of how they will turn out. It depends on the persons interpretation of the experiences.
2006-07-14 03:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by keep_up_w_this 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Option 1: You end up the same.
Option 2: You go totally the opposite way.
Option 3: You work out your own way.
2006-07-14 03:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by epod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's individual for each person. Some grow up to be very disciplined, and will raise their own children that way. Others will do just the opposite, they will rebel. often very strongly, and be perverse in nearly everything they do, weather it's dress, behavior, language, etc.
2006-07-14 03:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by chavsgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends upon the child.
1) they could become good citizens
2) they could swing totally opposite and be bad out of rebellion
2006-07-14 05:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Less confidence,shy,less risks means less rewards,etc.
2006-07-14 03:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he/she could turn either have lack of confidence or become really rebelious and defiant.
2006-07-14 03:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by broken_<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋