I am 8 months pregnant and don't know what to do, any suggestions?

Question

I have been having problems with my pregnacy from the beging and was just told today that my baby is not getting the proper nurishments that it needs from me. This is because I have been unable to keep anything down. I feel I should push the issue of my doctor delivering early but I don't know. I think even though I know she will be premature she will get the care that she needs outside since I am unable to provide what she needs.

I really appreciate everyone's advice on this. One thing that I forgot was the fact that my doc has even put me on meds to try to help and they are not working. Then there is the issue that I keep having issues of me passing out. My situation is a little different though since I can't just go to another doctor and get a second oppinion based on the fact I live on a military base that is an hr from the nearest town and our medical wont cover it. I would still like everyone to keep in mind though my daughters best intrest is what's important to me right now and I want to do what is best for her.

Answer 1

The doctor will do what he feels is best for your baby. If it was in your baby's best interest to deliver her early, he would do that. The baby grows the most in the last month. If your baby isn't getting enough, then remoing her now, might be fatal to her...especially if she is too small. As long as she is not showing any signs of distress, it is best to leave her where she is.

Never be in a hurry for a premature baby...they can have so many issues...especially if a very low birth weight. My son was born 3 months early due to extreme complications. We both almost died. He was 1.5 before they were even sure he would live! He had failure to thrive...wasn't strong enough to eat.

Please trust your doctor. If he feels that your baby is safer on the outside, you will find yourself being delivered faster than you can say, "what?" Obviously for now, she is still safer where she is.

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Answer 2

Don't push for an early delivery, see if there is something else you can do. My friend had that same problem also, she only gained 6 lbs during her whole pregnancy because she had morning sickness all 9 months. Her doctor admitted her to the hospital a month early & gave her her vitamins through an IV along with extra fluids (I dunno about food, I think she ate reguarly, but the hospital knows what they can give you that won't upset too much ya know?). Maybe that is something you should look into if you are financially able to do so (her insurance covered all of it) & you are ready for that commitment. I'm very sorry you're having difficulties, I hope you find out a solution. Good luck with the baby.

Answer 3

I would at least push for an ultrasound and look for signs as to whether the baby is thriving. If not, early induction may be the answer. If you are eight months (aka, you only have 4 weeks or less left) then you're near enough to full term that your baby will probably do fine, and may even catch up on the nutrients it's not getting in the womb. Infants that show failure to thrive in the womb often catch up quickly once they're born, and end up being very healthy by the time your due date rolls around. So, push for an ultrasound, and if baby shows failure to thrive, push for an early birth.

Answer 4

Hi the same thing happened to my daughter when she was pregnant with her two last children, she was admitted to hospital quite a few times because she was being sick all the time, they said the same to her about the baby not getting the right nutrients, my daughter gave birth on both times just a bit early at 38 weeks, but if you are very worried go and have a word with your mid-wife she will be able to advise you. GOOD LUCK

Answer 5

You really don't want to have a preemie for the reason that they are more likely to have to stay in the hospital, and they can also have problems such as breathing problems. Remember that your doc knows best and that ! day in the womb is like 1 week outside of the womb, so the baby as long as it can be put off before your baby is born the better. Good Luck

Answer 6

Doctor's usually won't induce until 38 weeks for sake of healthy lung and brain development. When I had my issues with pregnancy sickness, I found that starting my morning with 3-4 saltine crackers made a big difference. Maybe the BRAT diet will help you...Bananas, Rice and Toast and take your prenatals.

My grandmother was sick all the time when she was pregnant with my mom and she always felt better with what she calls a "lemon fizz", basically 7UP or Sprite. Good luck to you both.

Answer 7

Try to ask your doctor for a timetable,so that you know what the plan is. When is the next time he will check the baby's size, to see if they are growing? What will be your plan of action then? As soon as the benefits of getting nutrition outside outweight the benefits of being in your womb, he will induce.

Answer 8

One month premature is usually not a big deal, medically, but it all depends on your particular pregnancy. ONLY your doctor can answer this - if you do not trust her, find a way to visit a different doctor and get another opinion.

Good Luck!

Answer 9

if it was as bad as you think you would be on an IV. There are tons more steps to build up your;s and your baby's strength without delivering early. Rest up, eat as much as you can, and take comfort in knowing that all mommies to be think their situation is allot worse than it is. Just do what your dr says and all will be well. Good luck.

Answer 10

I think you should definitely push the issue of your doctor to delivery the baby early. Not only is it not good for the baby to not be getting the nutrients it needs, but it is not good for your health either, if you are so sick.