ok i have a sister that i love soo much and shes in this realtionship but theres something really wrong with this picture. shes dating a guy on the side whos not her bf.i think i should tell him but i dont want my sister to hate me. and for all of you who have an older sibling you know it really sucks to dissapoint and make some one you look up to really mad.im afraid that if i do this since i only see her every 2 weeks for only 2 days she could serously end up not talking to me for a year if she wanted to. what should i do?????
2006-07-13 20:18:21 · 9 answers · asked by kagome 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why do you think its your duty to rat your sister out...Her relationships are hers, not yours, do not bud in, it is not your responsiblity...Really stupid move if you do....
2006-07-13 20:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not responsible for your sister's happiness, nor her men's. However, your sister will be in your life as long as she lives but her men may come and go so let her make her own decisions. It's really not your business to interfere. Why in the world would you want to tell the guy? If he has any sense, he already knows.
2006-07-17 00:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by BBQribs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should talk 2 her one-on-one n tell her the consequences of cheating on guys like they dont mean a thing. That's all u can do without meddling into it. Good Luck
2006-07-14 03:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should do anything if you look up to her maybe talk to her about it but besides that leave it alone its not really ur problem to worry about...no offence if you do look up to her like you say you do then her be the bigger person and make the mistake herself...let her fall on her butt and then you can help her up when she realizes she made a bad choice that way she can learn on her own.
2006-07-14 03:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by shanellieboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess with it. She's acting selfishly and logic won't work b/c she wants more. If you tell the boys, she will be pissed at you and she'll just go do the same thing with different people.
2006-07-14 03:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by if i only knew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to sensitise her to a reasonable limits only.
Or else let her decide wht is good for her.
2006-07-14 03:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are worried because she's your older sister and you love her. and i understand that but it's not your problem. this is between your sister and those guys. even tho you know wat your sister is doing is wrong, you just have to leave it to her. sorry if this isnt wat you wanted to hear. Good luck and God Bless You
2006-07-14 03:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by **sTaRz** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is her right to do so. i think she just wants to find the best one for her!
2006-07-14 03:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by vantha_nou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tel her to choose one
2006-07-14 03:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by BLOO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋