I just have too much going on. I am really tired.
2006-07-13 19:54:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no, they wouldnt, it would hurt them deeply for years. dont hurt yourself, people love you, and youre special.
2006-07-13 19:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by hotsing1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it . Do you really want to hurt your mum and dad and every one you love and the people who love you . Not only do you destroy your life you will destroy many others , Killing your self only but takes of one second of bravado but creates a situation where many people will pay .If you want revenge on your family its a perfect way to destroy there lives, if not kill them as well . When things are at there worst they can only get better, i say this as i once was on the brink of suicide and even now i winder how i got though , That was twenty years ago , Since then Ive got married had kids got a great life and i would have missed all the good things life is about . Talk to some one life is for the brave
2006-07-13 20:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By asking "will my family understand" im assuming that you're asking if your family will be ok with it. You can answer that question yourself. Would you be ok if someone, who you love and trust, took their own life? Just look at life through the eyes of someone less fortunate than you. Give yourself some time to evaluate your life and "fix" what's broken. Everything in your life that's broken can be fixed except killing yourself. The reason why you're alive is to help others and you're doing your job naturally. You did that just by asking this question. Think of just one person who changed his or her mind because they read someone's answer to your question. In the morning when you wake up choose positive over negative and move forward. You might have to force yourself in the beginning but it will soon become natural. Just like everything you learn in life practice is essential. There are better days to come....
2006-07-13 20:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Richard S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO,NO AND NO you never say that. My friend was in the same hole she got help.My mom is a nurse and she knows a lady who's son killed him self and she said that you never get over it you just simply Learn to live with it. Your family will never under stand they love you are would not be the same with out you there is only one person like you that.will ever be on this earth. And you kneed to be on it as long as you can. If god wants you know he will take you he can but you can but your family will live in Paine. I lost a brother from that and I am all for helping people with that . When I got the phone call from my brothers friend"D" is my nick name."D it is your brother he is dead" Those words ring in my head all the time. You don't know what you are doing to your family you leave behind. Believe me I am one of them on the side were I lost a family member from that and I wish i would have done some thing to stop it.
2006-07-13 20:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one ever understands why we really feel this way at some point in our lives I have been there and tried it myself and all I can say is that you would do more damage to the people who love you believe me there is a light at the end of the tunnel.I am so glad that there were pwoplw out there who showed me just how much better life can be.there is no need to even think of doing yourself permanent harm or dying as life can only get better if you really give it a try I did and now things are finally comming together for me and I am just one guy trying to deal with life and the things it can throw at us all so please before you even think about doing aything so drastic talk to someone you love and trust they should understand.
2006-07-13 20:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they won't. It may cause other family memebers to have the same depression you are having. Some may hate you, others will asked themselves the rest of there lives, why?
Get some counseling pronto, if you are a minor don't be afraid to tell your parents you need to see a counselor, or ask a trusted teacher. Even your family doctor. I have been here, there is hope, you can climb out of this.
2006-07-13 20:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to tell you..............yes and no. My sister had at one point so much crap going on and hurt and trauma from family, that some point she wanted to die. It would have killed me, and still would. Would I have understood it, in a way. Would I have been okay no. When a person gets to that point, (and I myself have thought at one point that the people in my life might be better off), try to think how you would feel if someone in your life killed theirself. would you understand? would you be ok? always know that most times bad things and times pass. please look for a different way, even though it may not seem it RIGHT NOW there is at least ONE person, (probably more) that would love to help and love you, they may not even realize how bad you hurt.
2006-07-13 20:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by southernprincessofevil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are not going to kill yourself...I don't know you but I do know that life does throw us some curves but you just have to pick yourself up by yourbootstraps and charge head on...Nothing is bad enough to kill yourself................Tomorow is a new day and things will turn around for you ..Keep telling your self that and mean it....No your family would not understand!!!!! They would be grieving you and wishing they could bring you back......So stand up tall and be strong and meet each new day with the thought of What will today hold for me...Be good to yourself
2006-07-13 20:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being SAD is a state of mind. Change the way you look at things. Stay Happy. You can do that. And yes, you will cause a lot of agony & hurt to your loved ones if you even think of killing yourself.
2006-07-13 20:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they wouldnt why do something like that you will only hurt your family and that will remain in there lives for the rest of there lifes . show that you are a very specal person to them and for gods sake dont do that you are loved by many that you probley dont know . your family needs you alive not that way ok . my opion?
2006-07-13 20:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they wont understand. I have been in the same place as you and felt that there just was no point. Trust me, life always gets so much better
2006-07-13 19:58:55 · answer #11 · answered by Nimbus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋