I will play around and tell me wife that i will leave her if she ever cheats. But in the back of my mind im thinkin *** Im not really going anywhere. I just dont want her to ever cheat. Am i the only male who does this?
2006-07-13 19:51:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no.
2006-07-13 19:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is a classic red line that both couples use before the fact. After the fact things are much more complicated considering kids, forgiveness, love, money situation, etc...
I advise you no to repeat the line many times as it would reflect some lack of trust and insecurity and you will end up making your concerns a reality
2006-07-13 20:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by hotdesersand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, my guy said that he knows if I ever did that to him he couldn't handle it because I am his one weakness. He says he would leave, but I think we would work it out......of course I don't believe in cheating so he doesn't have to worry about it.
He does say women are definately in the forefront when it comes to being forgiving.
2006-07-13 20:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 06:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you're the only male who does it. my man just says that he trusts me and that he knows i would never cheat on him so he doesn't worry. i on the other hand, would kick his a$$ if he cheated, and leave him in a second.
2006-07-13 20:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a female who once made the mistake about joking around saying to my b/f that if i ever cheated you wouldn't ever know. Boy was that a mistake. That was thrown in my face for years!
Bottom line is that you never joke around aboutr Cheating ever ever ever!!!
2006-07-13 19:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by krYpToNitEsMoM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my husband he loves me so much he wouldn't leave even if I cheated, because he always swears he would. Finally, one drunken night he admitted he would forgive me for cheating, but I never would!
2006-07-13 20:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by tamara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband told me it would not be a good idea to cheat on him,
insinuating heads would roll, i'm thinking i'm not going to cheat i dont want to find out what he means, its a threat with a promise that has me completely aware if i ever want anybody else, i better dump him first!!!
2006-07-13 20:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I AM A FEMALE AND I DO THE EXACT THING BUT I THINK IF MY HUSBAND WAS REALLY TO CHEAT ON ME I WOULD LEAVE HIM BECAUSE I WOULD NEVER BE ABLE TO TRUST HIM AGAIN AND YOU MIGHT BE THE SAME WAY
2006-07-13 19:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what happens one night when you are fighting and she wants to leave you and goes and does cheat! and then changes her mind about wanting to leave you.
I do not joke with my husband about cheating.. i tell him right out if you want to cheat on me.. tell me first so i can kill the bit**
2006-07-13 20:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by ~Mrs.C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why play head games and why think she cheats or even say something like that to your partner isn't that kind of childish and rude if your in it for love then love fully and honestly
2006-07-13 21:19:51 · answer #11 · answered by shiningon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋