i was raped and now im 2mons pregnant anf only 15 what should i do?

Answer 1

I am so sorry to hear that. Talk to a counselor and find out all your options, then you can make an informed decision. Be strong. You will survive this no matter what your decision winds up being. Trust in yourself to do what is best for you.

Answer 2

Do the right and brave thing: tell your mom ASAP. DNA can pick out who dad is WITHOUT Maruy doing it for you. And if daddy's at or OVER 17 : either he pays his part of financial responsibility EACH MONTH.....or he has problems--serious ones.

He's guilty of statutory rape...which gives you some legal advantage if he becomes an a$$hole. If he does turn out to be an a$$hole, then jail is just the place he needs to go---before he hurts other women.....perhaps seriously.

He can't help with child support if he's in jail---but he doesn't want to go there: inmates do very nasty things to 'baby rapers' and he very well knows this to be true.

Call it a hunch, but once he's in the corner he'll resent you ( no real loss because your baby deserves a REAL man as a father), but he'll pay up his fair share. And I'd seek taking him to court, so he'll be legally obligated to pay child support until the baby turns 18.

Abortion is NOT a solution; neither is Foster care. Adoption may be a good solution....but this creep needs to sweat a little I think.

Answer 3

Did you report the rape to the authorities? If you had
or should I say, If you do;
they will immediately put you in contact with a rape crisis center and there you
will find people who help girls that have gone through or are going through the exact same thing that you are right now.
Your best advise is going to come from trained professionals and a lot of times these facilities are staffed by rape survivors.who better to advise you , than someone who has actually walked a mile in your shoes!
Good luck to you! I know you will find your way through this dark time!

Answer 4

Abort the baby and have a medical check up. There's a chance the rapist might be HIV positive. Inform the police. Please do so. There's nothing to be ashamed about. People look up to u if u do so. It shows how brave u are. At the age of 15 u still have a chance for a live. Don't let this bastard child ruin it for u. Get that rapist behind bars but most importantly of all, get a medical check up.

Answer 5

You left rape out on your last post!

Talk to your mom and if you can't talk to her talk to a guidance counselor or nurse at school. Since it's summer vacation, maybe you should look-up a local crisis pregnancy center and call them. This is much more serious since you were raped.

I still say adoption but you still have many more things to come to terms with since you were raped. If you email me your city and state, I can look-up some local crisis centers for you. Also, if you can contact Dr. Drew on Loveline, a national radio broadcast (the number is 1-800-LOVE-191 and it airs Sun-Thu from 10PM-12PM Pacific Time), he will give you all the contacts your city has to offer. Good luck and take care of yourself.

Answer 6

Abortion. That's what id do. Why go through that dumb **** by having it and losing so much of your life by carrying a baby for 9 months on a guy who raped you and having the jerks child and giving it up for adoption. That's so exausting and stupid. Y hurt yourself more and put yourself throough un needed pain and memory? Everytime u look at that cvhild youll be reminded of him. Also tell your parents. Im sure you did, though along with the police.
Why are people telling you to have this baby? Imean i know its freedom of speech and your beliefs, and mine are that its sooooo dumb to go through all that crap. Its not a baby until its born. its a fetus. Look at the poor girls situation. A 15 year old was raped. HELLO?? yeah, have the baby, and decrease her chances at a real life and experiencing her OWN decisions..

Answer 7

Well I've answered your previous question and here I am again. Well whether the baby's father is someone you hate or not, keep the precious baby! Don't abort! Report to police and tell your parents. Take care of the baby.

Damn the guy who raped you.

Answer 8

Talk to someone. Your parents would probably be a good choice, but if you don't want to talk to them or a friend or family, look for a pregnancy counseling service in your area. You should be able to find one in the phone book or on the Internet. They will provide you with someone to talk to and give you information to help you decide what to do. They usually will also help you with things you may need like doctor visits, prenatal vitamins, maternity clothes, baby things, etc.

Answer 9

it's your choice. only you know how you feel about your options (i.e. abortion, adoption) talk to your parents. let the authorities know about the rape. don't put of deciding about the pregnancy. the longer you wait, the fewer options you will have. don't let this ruin your life. get counseling. rape is a difficult thing to deal with. i was raped 17 yrs ago by some one i thought was a friend. i didn't tell anyone. i still have nightmares. i'm sorry this has happened to you. be strong.

Answer 10

It's your choice, have the kid and keep it, have the kid and put it up for adoption or abort the pregnancy. Talk with your guardians, if you keep the child then, most likely, they will be the caretakers of it. Talk with a doctor and your guardians about your choices and go with the one you think will be best, not only for right now but when you're older.