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please someone tell me wat to do

2006-07-13 19:33:45 · 39 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

39 answers

geez you kids need to know how to close your fuking legs

2006-07-13 19:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by JOhNe=mc² 6 · 1 3

Nobody can "tell" you what to do, you have to decide for yourself. I suggest telling your parents if you haven't already, even if it's hard. They still love you and help you through. However I strongly advise you against having an abortion. Don't take the easy way out-you made this baby, now you can take the responsibility of bringing it into the world. Not only that, abortion can be physically and mentally painful, and you'll probably end up regreting it for much of your life. If you have the support you need to keep your baby, I would because that baby will be precious to you, no matter at what time you had it in life. It might be hard and you'll have to make sacrifices, but I'm sure once you become a parent you won't wish for things to be different. If not, there's always adoption.

2006-07-13 19:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0 0

Don't even consider abortion. You can either keep him/her and raise him/her, or adoption. Ya know people will pay you big $$$ for a healthy happy baby. Keeping the little one is gonna cost you a bundle!! And you're not even out of high school yet? Christ!!! I can't really feel sorry for ya. You chose to play a grownups game. Well, now you're an adult!!! Time to step up and be a woman/mother. I'm gonna say adoption. Help a couple out that can't have kids, and use this a learning experience ;) Just don't let anyone talk you into abortion!! You'll never be the same after that. Trust me! I have three boys of my own. We almost thought about abortion with my first. Thank God we didn't!!! He's a smart, beautiful young man!!

Peace to you and yours,

Hang in there!!!

Oh yeah.......www.plannedparenthood.com

2006-07-13 20:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0 0

Think about what U wanna do for one... do u wanna keep the child? If not there is abortion and adoption. Then go to an adult and tell them whats going with u and what u think u wanna do from this moment on. U might get cussed out or feel bad, but u must do something. Ur only going to get bigger and the child wont just disappear no matter how many nights u cry. Also if u know who the baby father is, im really hopin u do, tell him as well and tell him to tell his folks. Do anything, just tell someone and tell them fast. Dont beat around the bush!

2006-07-13 19:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Quin 2 · 0 0

I suggest adoption, open or closed (it's up to you). I just don't think you can handle raising a baby at 15 and you need to finish school. You need money to raise a child and some experience out in the world as an adult, you don't have either. I planned my pregnancy at 28 and it is still hard...I am married, we own a home, have two newer cars and that doesn't even make it easy.

I am against abortion for a couple of reasons...first of all, I believe it is wrong to kill an innocent child and second, it is not good for your body and can cause problems now and later in life. Honestly, it's the hardest easy way out available.

For your sake and the baby's sake, adoption is the best solution. Good luck.

2006-07-13 19:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0 0

How is adoption not an decision? in case you refuse to do both an abortion or adoption then all you should do is tell your mom. there is no good way for a 15 year old to inform her moms and dads she's pregnant so do not attempt to imagine of a "good" thanks to do it. i'd advise you wait and locate out in case you're. purely because the condom broke around the time you ovulated does not advise you're pregnant. Like I suggested in my very last answer, do not worry about issues that isn't come to pass. Wait yet another week and take a try. Then worry about breaking the data if there is information to break.

2016-11-02 01:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by seelye 4 · 0 0

First off, let your parent know whats going on. Then go and see how far along you are. Althoough you are young I don't think you should get an abortion. The baby is an innocent factor. You should keep it because having an abortion can lead to a very bad, sad , and hurtful outcome. Follow your heart and do whatever it is that you think is best and will make YOU happy. I wish you all the luck in whatever you decide to do.

2006-07-13 20:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to tell an adult that you trust and go see a doctor. Tell your parents as soon as possible! My sister got pregnant at the same age and she asked my sister-in-law for help. She finally told my parents when she was 3 months pregnant and they took it a lot better than we expected. Just make sure that you tell someone soon! Whatever choice you make, make sure you are doing the best for yourself and your unborn baby.
PS
She kept the baby and he's the most adorible little boy! he's 18 months old

2006-07-13 19:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by Never [?] YOUR <3* 2 · 0 0

I would say to give it up for adoption.

You got pregnant at an age where you should've been cheerleading, or playing softball...well, now what? Why not do a good thing; endure the pregnancy, which will be difficult, and give teh child a chance to grow up ina strong family, with parents who so dearly want a child. You are not ready (NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK) to raise a child, and by giving it up for adoption, you give the child a shot at a great life.

Also, talk to your parents...they may yell, cry, scream, but they will also help. They love you.

2006-07-13 19:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by taishar68 2 · 0 0

Tell your family. Face the music. And at the end of the day, they are the ones who will help you. Even if they think you wasted your life away, you have just develop a lovely child in your womb right now. Do not abort. Love your child, for the child loves the mother so much.

2006-07-13 19:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by nonentity 3 · 0 0

Tell your parents and the baby's daddy
Keep the baby
I know it's like "I'm only 15 with a baby!! "well Hun you tought you were responsible for having sex at such a young age and also without protection...So you should learn to deal with the outcome and face the mistake you made...Because believe me its a big one and might as well be a responsible person for your action, and remember it's not the baby's fault so might at well have it right.You thought you were mature to have sex...be mature to take care of a baby.

2006-07-13 19:38:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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