2006-07-13 19:17:59 · 16 answers · asked by ne-ne 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
How about waiting 10 more years. Find a man who will love you and whom you will love. Settle down. And when the right time comes, you'd have your baby! :)
2006-07-13 19:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jo Ann 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How come if you don't have like 3 kids by the time you're 18-20, it's considered odd? Honey, enjoy your youth! Children are HUGE responsibilities that you can't handle at 16, no matter how strong and mature you THINK you are at that age.
2006-07-14 02:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by rach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowadays about 28 or 30. Most people are not mature enough to even think about having a child till mid-twenties. I am sure you are day dreaming. It is a lot of work. You have to have a lot of patience, you have to know all about childhood diseases, you need a lot of EDUCATION. There are a lot more things to having a baby then playing with them because you think they are cute. Or having something to hold when you are lonely. Think about it. You have to be ready. But it is your maturity that is really important. It is not chronological age.
2006-07-14 02:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by pixles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O_O
You're only 16. You're really thinking about having children?!
We live in a sad, sad world.
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Let's try not to think about children until after we're of legal age (18) and happily married (whatever age that may be).
2006-07-14 02:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by xo_pina_colada_ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have kids when you are married you and your husband educated and finical stable call me old fashion but it all ways work better that way their is no real age you should just got all the party out your system and your husband also
2006-07-14 02:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by mumsey4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about getting married first, then think about kids. And don't rush doing either one. Once you get them, you'll be wishing you were 16 and alone again. (This coming from me who isn't married nor has kids, so imagine what mothers and wives will tell you.)
2006-07-14 02:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ever you are really ready and in a very stable relationship and when u have enough money to back u up not that anyone really has enough but just be secure.
I have a 3 yr old i was 20 her dad was 18 she is the best thing in the world to us but she is epileptic and that was unexpected and now i raise her (he sees her) be prepared for anything don't think about it now
2006-07-14 02:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by alew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont even think about having ANY kids until you will be able to handle it. financially and emotionally. id say wait AT LEAST until your middle 20s when you have security and stableness in your life. having a baby is a big change in anyones life, so think before you have one.
2006-07-14 15:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by moonshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling..............enjoy being a teenager first because everything has its time.........and you'll be a happier person if you enjoy every single state in your life.....you will have kids once you've become a complete woman and once you're ready to become a mother who is capable of providing for your child!
2006-07-14 02:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you graduate from college, develop a healthy relationship and are financially stable. You also need to consider looking into investigating about young pregnancies.
2006-07-14 02:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋