What do I do?

Question

SEE MY BOI FRIEND IS 17 AND HE WANT'S A BABY AND I WANT ONE 2 BUT I JUST WANT TO KNOW AM I TO YOUNG

Answer 1

Don't be a stupid person, if you don't have the money and time to raise a kid why have one? I'm sick of stupid women having kids and then getting on welfare, if you cant pay for it don't have it. besides you are only 17...that is way to young! Its unfair to a child.

Answer 2

Yes, u r wayyyy to young. Im 18 and pregnant and Im wayyy to young. You're going to have to give up everything, going out when u wanna, sleeping when u wanna. A baby is not a toy. If u guys want something to love, play with and feed, get a dog as a pet or cat. Its your best bet trust me!!! And think, u guys might not last forever. Actually a baby coming into the world just might break you guys up. He doesn't HAVE to be there for u and the baby. And then u will become a single YOUNG mother. U dont wanna do that to yourself or the baby.

Plus are u even out of high school yet, or even college? Stable and steady job? House of ur own? I would think not... So u think bout this.. maybe u should ask ur folks do they want a kid as well... Dont be selfish cause u wanna child. Ur parents will have to be with u on this one too. Just really think about this. Actually I think u should print this page out and sit down with ur bf and talk about this alittle bit more!!! Plez.

But whatever u decide good luck!

Answer 3

You are totally too young. A baby is not an accessory, or some fun toy, a baby requires you completely. It requires you to be mature and all settled in your life so you can guide it to be a wonderful human being, and so you can provide love, attention, and protection for it. Maybe you guys should start out by dog sitting and see how that goes for just one week. Multiple that responsibility by 10000 and you have what it takes to handle a baby. So then try babysitting, with your boyfriend, babysit a neice or cousin, regularly. Give up going out to spend all of your time with the child. See how you guys like giving up your youth. Enjoy your youth, go party, stay out late, have fun, and have a baby when you're more grown up and have already lived out your youth... and also after you're married so the child can have a stable family.

Answer 4

17 is too young. You have plenty of time to have children, and your b/f needs to know that. I am sure when he gets over this he will realize that raising a child when you can't even vote is not what he reall wanted. Besides you will be the one that will be there going thru all the stuff the goes with pregnancy. don't start something that you can't give 110percent too because babies take that and more

Answer 5

how old are you???? im guessing that YES you are toooo young a child needs a stable home where their mother and father are married and living together and are able to pay 100% attention to the baby and be able to be fiancially stable as well children need food, clothes and somewhere to sleep and in your single bed at home with your mum is NOT good enough!!!! you need to be an adult thats independent !!! maby you can try this .... buy a dog and if it lives for say 10 years and dies of OLD AGE then maby you can take care of a child cos im telling you A CHILD IS HARD WORK!!! it wont be about you anymore everything you do will have to be for the baby!!! so think about it very HARD!!!

Answer 6

Firstly: Are the 2 of you ready for the responsibility?
If you both say yes, remember, it will be hectic for at least the next 5 to 7 years..
if you are 17 or older, then i say it should be all right.
be prepared that you may have to take care of the kids yourself without any help from your boyfriend.He may find it too much hrd work and take the back seat. If you don't mind that then go ahead.

Answer 7

First of all like what others say, Your are wayyyyy to young, you're a baby yourself. Your boyfriend if too young to be a father and to take all the responsibilities. 2nd both of you should think what college to go to be somebody before you decide to get married first then have a child. Whats the rush anyway!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

if he love u he'll wait until u are ready.. i know how u feel some guys would use wanting a baby but what he is really saying he want some ***.. he can wait. a baby is expensive and needs the proper care and love..you get a education and a decent job, so if that so call "babydaddy" leaves u and your baby can be ok....thank about that..seen it happen too many times..I'm tired of paying for kids that could have been prevented until the parents are ready....

Answer 9

Trust me you should wait...I was 21 when i had my son and if i could go back i would have waited like until now to have him (im almost 27)

But i wouldn't trade my son for nothing but in my mind at the time i was like god i have to hurry up and have a baby. (he was a planned baby though) but i should have waited cause i did give up my life for my son.

Once you have a kid it is not about you anymore...Think it over before doing anything like that.

Good luck

Answer 10

bad ideal not that your too young but just think about it you will be tied down to this baby for at least 18 yrs make sure you do everything you want before you get pregnant and make sure your financially ready!