My nephew is nineteen. He is a virgin. He has done what all virgins do at that age--try to lie and suppress his frustration and say he doesn't care. I thought that I might get a hooker for him and pay her kind of like an adult actress and treat it like a chance meeting and a one night stand. I know its immoral, but hell, how many uncles can say they bought a hooker for their nephew. I just want him to have his sex realize its good but not worth obsessing over and drop a couple hundred out of caring for my nephew. Is this wrong?
2006-07-13 18:40:58 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes! my brother is about the same age, and he is a virgin too. there is nothing wrong w/ being one. Let him find out on his own. Don't push him.
2006-07-13 18:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by ilikesmurfs7 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
absolutely wrong - this might give your nephew the impression that women can be bought and feelings should never have to go into having sex. and that's not what having sex is about. maybe there is a reason that your nephew is a virgin, have you taken the time to consider how your nephew might feel. not all men are like you. not all men feel that sex can be used as a form of entertainment. some real men actually think that having sex with another person should be private, and not for everyone to know. what a downer on his self esteem. to think that one of his wanna be cool uncles thought so less of his ability to find a woman to have meaningful sex with. shame on you - wanting to teach that to someone younger than you and we wonder why young men have no respect these days. find something better to do with your money.
2006-07-13 18:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, That would be great you give you nephew some kind of disease that makes his nuts fall off! Hey even worse his you know what! With all the little girl running around trying to give their virginity away its only a matter of time.
2006-07-13 18:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by top momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be putting your nephews health, not to mention life in danger. I am assuming his parents would not be impressed and it just sounds like a bad idea. If you really want to care for your nephew, don't take the chance. He will eventually have sex, in his own time with the person he chooses.
2006-07-13 18:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by eeyoreshunni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..well sex is something that should be done with someone you love..not some random person..BUT if you're nephew is obsessing about it and it is affecting his self-esteem..then i guess it would help him out to hire a hooker. So go for it, but make sure he doesnt find out cuz that could really hurt your relationship with him. oh, but remember, they arent the cleanest people..so there is the risk of getting an std.
2006-07-13 18:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him find someone on his own...=D he might not like the idea too you know. Just tell him to enjoy life and take it step by step... support and encourage whatever plans or goals he has in mind. would you want him to lose his virginity to someone of no importance to him... -hooker?? perhaps he might actually want to do it w/ someone special. =D What you can do is to encourage him do go out and enjoy meeting new people... or go dating instead. online dating isn't that bad either, try the likes of webdate.com or wealthymen if it suits you.=D
2006-07-14 23:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by crazyangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez i thought this was going to be a joke question, but you sound serious. honestly, it might work but be sure the hooker isn't crude and cruel..she might make fun of him or something unless she is willing to play the part right under the circumstances. ps. i knew someone who went to a hooker to lose his virginity and she pointed at his 'member' and laughed. i'm not making this up. he said it scarred him for a long time.
2006-07-13 18:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by foxfirevigil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that'll screw him up for life. Why don't you hand him a disease too. I guess you'd rather the hooker do that hm mm. Wrong yes. Stupid. Yes. Rent him a porno for goodness sake. Tell him to get out more. Gosh I'd get him a damned blowup doll b4 i gave him a free ride to syphilis!
2006-07-13 18:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he would want to have sexual relations with someone he will do it on his own not with some hooker ewww. Plus sex isnt important to everyone maybe he is waiting for the right one to come along.
2006-07-13 18:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by 0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hooker
It will give him false hope.
Let him figure it out just like the rest of us did. If you want to help him talk with him about how to approach women.
Give him advice not a one night stand
2006-07-13 18:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. thats only a little bit illegal. plus, hes a virgin. usually when you lose your virginity you want to loose it to someone special not some hooker off the streets. maybe your nephew doesn't care,maybe he's saving himself for marriage. he's just to scared to tell you because obviously you disaprove him being 19 and a virgin. let him loose his virginity when he is ready.
2006-07-13 18:44:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋