I am a lesbian and have been with the same girl for four years she cheated on me 3 times and right after i left she instantly hooked up with a 15 year old girl and says she wasn't in love with me for over a year i am still in love with her what do i do?
2006-07-13 17:30:45 · 29 answers · asked by tlca_6002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why are still sitting there? go get her!
2006-07-13 17:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
This is a hard one. You need to just take some time for yourself, then move on and find a new partner. Your lover is playing a very dangerous game being with a 15 year old. If you are in a position to talk to that girls parents, I would do that. It might not get your lover back, but you just might save a 15 year old from some serious trouble. I wish you LUCK
2006-07-13 17:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by Classy Granny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you didn't figure it out three times in a row.. My guess is that it'll take even a few more times for you to figure it out.
What you do is take some time to get over this. Try to figure out what signals you were ignoring that it wasn't working out or that the person didn't want to be with you in a love sort of way.
More than likely you're a person that needs to feel loved really bad. You're definitely insecure with yourself.
Only thing I could say is you need to learn to love yourself.. even just a wee little bit before you go love somebody else or let anybody else love you.
I know it's easier said than done. It took me until I was 24 or so before I started to love myself. I'm now in my early 30s and am pretty confident about who I am and who I let in my life.
I wish you the best.
2006-07-13 17:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by game buddee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are dealing with a broken heart. I know it hurts :( but stay the hell away from her. Once your heart heals up, you will be so much better off. You need to find someone who loves you. Someone who cheated on you 3 times in 4 years doesn't, and honey, you don't need her! Stay away from her, and make yourself go out with friends, and have a good time. Take care of you, until your heart is all healed up. I know it seems like it will never happen but it will. Good luck. Oh and P.S. stay away from mushy love songs for a month or so :)
2006-07-13 17:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it's going to be hard, but basically tell yourself you were in love with an idiot.
Who would leave someone they're married to for a 15 year old girl. And what does she see in her anyway, obviously not the mental development and maturity.
Just keep reminding yourself that and try to get over her.
2006-07-13 17:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by ymingy@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report her to the police (that's soooo illegal!)and move on. You don't want to be involved with her after discovering this! If she's cheated on you 3 times? She'll always be a cheater and you'll never be able to trust her! Move on and find someone who will appreciate your love! It will be hard at first, but in the end you will be so much happier!
2006-07-13 17:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 00:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how old your wife is why is she with a minor? there are plenty of other people out there for you. let her go. if she left you for a child she was not worth the time and years you put into the relationship anyway. good luck in the future.
2006-07-13 17:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by eeyorea1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her!
if she cheated once she'll cheat again!
you deserve better not someone who is going to be cheating on you.If she is cheating and with a 15 YEAR OLD its because she trully doesnt love you.
find someone who really does love you and you will be much happier.
there is always someone else,and life goes on.
be strong!
Good Luck!
2006-07-13 18:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she left you for a 15yr old girl. Thats when you know something is wrong. Find someone else. Why deal with that? If she went for someone else clearly she doesnt want you. Try a dating service?
2006-07-13 17:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by amberpurkey2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she left you for a 15 the nasty dog needs to be put under the jail real womens dont molest kids that is so low get help shes a child molester and needs to be reported why you are crying you love her help get the molesters off the street JAIL IS WHERE THEY BELONG BEING SOMEONE IN JAIL PROPERTY
2006-07-13 17:49:52 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋