I know it looks terrible and I'm really sorry for what I did so please don't say something rude.
I met a very nice guy last summer on the net and the first time I talked to him I told him that I'm 17 but I was 16(I know that's stupid)
and now he thinks I'm 18 but I'm 17 I really wanna tell him the truth but I'm just so afraid can you help me, I just don't know what to say can you come up with something nice for me?
2006-07-13 17:11:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I doubt a year's going to make a difference. Just copy and paste that above paragraph to him if you want. If he really likes you it won't matter.
2006-07-13 17:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by ymingy@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say how you were about to be turning that age. But, you know, what can he do? He hasn't seen you in person before, unless you guys are in some sort of a long-distance relationship. And, I know, it's wrong to actually say rude things but hey, it's a question forum and I'm here to help answer. If you're going tell the truth, how old is he? A year doesn't make a big difference when it comes to having a relationship, as long as you guys believe in love. But hey, I really don't know the full length situation so if you told me, I'd help you out some more. Feel free to email me it.
2006-07-13 17:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, just tell the truth, and come clean! You'll feel alot better and he probably won't think its such a big deal. You could say something like, "I know I told you last year I was 17, because I wanted my age to match how old I think I am on the inside, and in my heart. I wanted you to think I was older so I wouldn't lose your friendship however, it wasn't the truth. The truth is........... and leave it at that! If he cares about you, your friendship, you don't let something like this get in the way. However, if he chooses to not continue your friendship or relationship(whatever level you are at now)then I would learn from your mistake, and move on. Just don't be hard on yourself, you know everybody is HUMAN and everybody makes MISTAKES! Hope it all works out okay. Good luck!
2006-07-13 17:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of us do the incorrect element often times yet you've made the first step to revive and now know you made blunders. you've universal duty now you should flow on and be the fellow you're with the tips of your blunders which will function alarm bells for the destiny. you won't be able to ward off making judgements yet you could ward off making undesirable judgements. don't sense accountable, sense regret. don't sense undesirable, settle for what got here about don't sense stupid, settle for that you've been stupid. Then start up afresh. once you've expenditures to pay, pay them. "yet i'll't ignore abt the previous" Why ought to you want to, that's you journey and makes you a extra helpful being because of it. How a lot of this difficulty is now lingering on? are you able to start up back with a sparkling canvas?
2016-11-02 00:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a big deal. Just say ur b'day was coming near so u told him u were 17 already rather than 16! He's not gonna get mad..
2006-07-13 17:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by K.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learn the hard way that honesty is always the best answer. If he likes you he'll understand and if not than forget him its he's lost. That is my humble opinion.
2006-07-13 17:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sooner the truth the better. bottom line is you will feel a lot better. lies are covered with more lies. the truth is a wonderful characteristic. bless you.
2006-07-13 17:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by lew h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey its one year not 25 just tell him he wont mind..Tell him the truth
2006-07-13 17:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is this guy?
2006-07-13 17:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by PDY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋