2006-07-13 17:10:28 · 24 answers · asked by Sadness need Happiness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I love to relax and listen to problems.
Why listen to fun stuff when their are problems to listen to?
I like it most when women take off their clothes and tell me their problems.
2006-07-13 17:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because when men have problems, they solve it right away and forget about it. Women go deeper into it and analyze it. Too much talking about problems to guys can really turn the guy off and send the signal that that woman is insecure and has low self esteem. Occasionally men don't mind a little vent from women but all the time just gets too much. Which will lead to misunderstandings and unhealthy attachments, because women are emotional and are attracted to men emotionally while men are attracted to women visually.
2006-07-14 00:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men have their own problems to deal with and some women seem to think that their the only ones with problems. Men dont realy mind to help women with their problems or listen to what they have to say as long as it doesnt get to an annoying point where they go on-and-on about it. Women just have to understand that everyone has problems and stresses in their own life.
2006-07-14 00:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by RedHead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps some men don't know how to fix the problem and it makes them uncomfortable. Men are "fixers" while women are often helped by just talking. I feel better after just verbalizing my problems, but a man may take the verbalization as being something he is not good at.
2006-07-14 00:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When most women want to talk about problems, they're looking for someone who will listen to them and validate their feelings.
Men, when listening to problems want to fix things. When they offer a suggestion on how to fix a problem to someone who wanted their feelings validated, all they get in response is a negative reaction.
Having their best efforts "shot down" makes a man less likely to try next time. And having it happen every time just builds a dislike.
2006-07-14 00:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by cmriley1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the length women go through to get their point across. I have also noticed women love to hold a grudge for awhile. I lost an important item early last week and I asked my wife to forgive me. She still is mad at me for this!
Women use 25,000 words in an average day. Men only 10,000. My wife uses half to vent on me the problems she had for the day.
Wish I had ear plugs she couldn't see. It would make the drive much easier to take.
2006-07-14 00:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we are responsible we have Jobs and work to do. WE have to make decisions and that's what we get paid for. The money puts the roof over are families heads, gives them food, and provides for every ones future.
This causes a lot of stress,
In order to be successful we need to go to work every F'n day for the rest of our lives and bring home the bacon regardless of how we feel or what anyone says to us. This causes even more stress.
So when you have a problem we love you and we'd love to solve it for you, but when you all just want to babble all night long this causes stress since we are worried that we will miss work. Remember we have to go to work every day forever. All this stress requires sleep and by god we'd like to get laid too if we finally get the opportunity to have some fun at the end of a day. Us working guys have found sex to be a great stress reliever and it dos't cost us anything eccept more mouths to feed.
Soon the babbling part of your problems are not only getting in the way of getting to work but they are also getting in the way of getting laid.
So generally speaking your problems lead to us being up all night listening to babble, not getting laid and having to go to another days work being your sounding board and having no attention paid to us. Why should we listen?
2006-07-14 00:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are ok with that, but not all. If you find that every man in your life is like how you describe, then maybe it's not the men that's the problem.
2006-07-14 00:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(a) there are guys that do
(b) the general theory is that women like to discuss problems and feelings. guys however, if you tell them about a problem want to 'fix' it, not talk about it. So as soon as they hear a problem, they work on the solution and tune out while you are telling them just to share it with them.
2006-07-14 01:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by 2thseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz they are men. Sorry honey...it's a fact of life. 98% of men dont like to listen to our problems :(
2006-07-14 00:17:27 · answer #10 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋